Lost A Baby And Now Me And My Partner Are Arguing So Much :(
My first pregnancy and I just lost the baby at 7 weeks. I know it wasn't far along but me and my partner were so excited already. I was so looking forward to feeling the baby kick and move and hiccup. I bought all the magazines I could, I researched everything I was worried about. I just couldn't wait to give birth to my baby and hear it cry as it took it's first breath in our world. So looking forward to holding my baby, feeling it's soft skin pressed against my own, looking into the baby's eyes and knowing that I would never find something so special, so precious, so proud to call my own in the whole of this world.
I had the scan on new years eve and they told me and my partner that the baby was gone. I nad never felt a feeling so upsetting, so depressing as that in the whole of my life, and I sure as hell hope that I never have to feel it again. Looking at the sadness in my partners eyes was so hard, knowing that he could see the sadness in mine.
We had a slightly patchy relationship before but it was on the road to recovery, and now I feel as though it's just going back down hill. We live together so maybe we do get a little bit to much of each other but I can't help noticing how bad things have gotten since we found out about losing the baby. I know I love him and I know he loves me, but I don't know what to do anymore. Should I just give him a bit of space and let him deal with it in his own time when he feels good and ready or should I try and talk to him about how he is actually feeling??
I want to stay in a relationship with him but I really don't know wehter this is going to be the end of us??
All I need is to feel like someone is there for me. I need to hear a few kind and reassuring words. I just need a little advice on how this can be fixed. Can anybody help?? xx
I had the scan on new years eve and they told me and my partner that the baby was gone. I nad never felt a feeling so upsetting, so depressing as that in the whole of my life, and I sure as hell hope that I never have to feel it again. Looking at the sadness in my partners eyes was so hard, knowing that he could see the sadness in mine.
We had a slightly patchy relationship before but it was on the road to recovery, and now I feel as though it's just going back down hill. We live together so maybe we do get a little bit to much of each other but I can't help noticing how bad things have gotten since we found out about losing the baby. I know I love him and I know he loves me, but I don't know what to do anymore. Should I just give him a bit of space and let him deal with it in his own time when he feels good and ready or should I try and talk to him about how he is actually feeling??
I want to stay in a relationship with him but I really don't know wehter this is going to be the end of us??
All I need is to feel like someone is there for me. I need to hear a few kind and reassuring words. I just need a little advice on how this can be fixed. Can anybody help?? xx
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we got one of those lanterns that you light that go into the sky and set it off in memory of the baby we would have had. now we are expecting again and im terrified but i wish you the best of luck xx