what hacks me off. . .
hey ladies. .
Gosh if i hear another person say to me try and relax it will happen naturally once more i will go crazy! Fact mine ain't gonna happen naturally that's why am having ivf : ) in may. . Its more annoying when it comes from someone newly pregnant who has only been tryin a couple months! Ah lol. . Try relaxing after two years! Sorry rant Over. . Its not am obsessive about trying to get pregnant but when ttc for long time. . Perhaps wouldn't be obsessive if got bfp after few months. .sorry if sounds like moaning but i am he he x X
Gosh if i hear another person say to me try and relax it will happen naturally once more i will go crazy! Fact mine ain't gonna happen naturally that's why am having ivf : ) in may. . Its more annoying when it comes from someone newly pregnant who has only been tryin a couple months! Ah lol. . Try relaxing after two years! Sorry rant Over. . Its not am obsessive about trying to get pregnant but when ttc for long time. . Perhaps wouldn't be obsessive if got bfp after few months. .sorry if sounds like moaning but i am he he x X
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if u don't mind me asking how long have u been waiting for IVF for? I start clomid on my next cycle and I'm so worried it won't work!
I sometimes get to the point where I really want to spill it out that I can't have babies easilty and naturally!
Im not saying being relaxed etc doesn't help some people conceive but if someone has internal problems such as cysts on their ovaries no amount of relaxation will help them conceive. It is unfair for people to make out that it's your fault for not relaxing when that's clearly not true. Anyway just wanted to say good luck with whatever you choose I hope u get your bfp soon.
G x
yea it is highly annoying appionated people thinking they no best about ur situation...we have been tryin for 2 years and sometimes it does "get me" aND i have have the odd "crazy moment" haha who doesnt!...lol
i no none of you know me but i would be such a good mother, and i am a really nice person, dont do nothing wrong to no one and work hard same as hubby, it feels so cruel we cant have a baby, and ivf is our only shot...
now peole are saying dont getmy hopes up that ivf wll work!!!!!!! gosh shall i just end it all now LOL...so dont obsess about TTC, when i find out i cant naturally i have ivf "dont get ur hopes up lol"....oh whats the point haha x
its easy for people with kids to say relax, you have children already, i have ZILCH. relaxing wont help me my oh sperm dont swim and kill each other lol xx
I suppose most people mean well, they just don't think about what they say before they say it.
But of course you can get our hopes up about IVF! If we don't have anything to look forward to, as you say, whats the point?!
The month I got my bfp there was a marked change in my attitude that i'd never had before. I was literally so fed up I thought what the hell, It's out of my control so i'm sick of wasting anymore of my time worrying about this. I'd actually given up and was taking control of a bloody awful situation like sticking two fingers up to ttc. Then got my bfp! x
also mil faves saying is, 'your trying too hard' how is that even possible
another friend said if we do it too much then it will dilute spermies, well we have tried every day, every other day every 3-4 days and still ZILCH!!!
my mum is lovely though and she always says, it will be your turn soon, that is a nice thing to say i think, it makes me feel that my special bubs is just waiting for that special month to spring itself on me, lol, i look forward to it everyday!!!
babydust to all xxxx
Rant over!! Wishing you so much luck for your IVF X
Or people who fall first month who say "do you think you're doing it at the right time" urm the ??60 on the cbfm, ??20 on frigging stick would say I know more than you and your magnetic ovaries!!x