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It's over
Well it looks like that's it. Nurse just called and my hormone level is at 25. So it's gone down to an almost not-pregnant level. To say I'm devastated is an understatement. I guess now I just need to wait to bleed- my endometrium is 10mm so there is some stuff needs to come out.
Thanks for all your messages guys x
Thanks for all your messages guys x
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Glad that you finally have had things confirmed rather than dragging on any longer, so you can have some "down" time and then start again, re-freshed and re-charged.
Take time to grieve the baby you have lost, you were pregnant, no matter how short that was,
Thinking of you and sending hugs
XxX
**big hugs**
Massive hugs
Lisa xxx
I'll take a cheapy test at the end of the week and see if I get BFN, like the nurse recommended xx
Hugs and Much Love
Jo xxx
I'm so confused at the moment. I really got no info at the EPU only that my hcg was at 25 and to do another test in a few days which should be negative. Anyway, I did one last night and it's still positive, obviously so. I am still spotting brown (almost a week and a half now) and I have only had a little bit of red blood Wed and Thur when I went to the loo. I was relieved when I first saw the red as it thought it would be over soon, but it has come to a standstill. It could easily be in my mind but I keep thinking I feel twinges to my left side (the side with the tube)
To my mind they haven't done enough to prove that this is not another ectopic. I had one scan which showed no sign of pregnancy anywhere (only a thick endometrium) and one blood test. I think they should be doing more as if I lose my other tube then that's it for me, and I will be devastated, no more children
I have today booked an appointment with my doctor for Monday morning to talk all this through with her, so should things not change over the weekend I will hopefully be able to get more investigation done
In an ideal world, I will begin bleeding properly this weekend and also have a negative test, but instinct tells me that I'm right and this isn't what they think it is. As soon as I got BFP my instinct told me that the pregnancy wasn't okay and I was right. I'm so scared xx
I really hope you dont have an ectopic
Were here for you hunny
big hug, take care xx
xxx
But anyway, I'm back in the saddle so to speak, and as I don't have the first idea when I am going to OV this month H2B is going to get lucky more regularly than usual! I'm determined to get PG again this month! xx