Bit gutted
I feel like such a bad mummy to be I had my 20 week scan today and everything went good with scan and we even managed to find out the sex, this is when it went downhill I already have a boy a really wanted a girl but yes I am having another boy I know I will be ok once it sinks in but I feel so bad feeling like this I am so down right now
I just need slapped coz I know I should be so grateful that I am pregnant with a healthy boy
I just need slapped coz I know I should be so grateful that I am pregnant with a healthy boy
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Second, it's natural to feel a bit gutted about it. You had your heart set on having a little girl. I think every mother (or most) wants a little girl. Especially when they already have a boy. Don't feel guilty. You still love the baby, and once he arrives you'll love him sooo much you won't care that he isn't a girl.
It's probably just going to take a while for it to sink in. Hope you're ok sweet.
Ellie xx
Second of all, please don't feel bad about feeling this way. I know exactly what you mean - we would have been very happy to have a boy but we both reaaaaaaaally wanted a girl. It's perfectly natural that you have a leaning, especially when you already have a little boy. You're a fantastic mum already, and you'll be even better when you're looking after your boys.
xxx