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Blatant, unashamed whinge!
There's no getting away from it! I'm feeling pretty bitter at the mo. I am just going to write down all the things that p**s me off and if I offend anyone, or say anything politically incorrect I DON'T CARE!!!
Here goes...
The apparently growing number of 16,17,18 yr olds who are getting knocked up by randoms and having their lives handed to them on a plate. Getting rent paid, vouchers for shopping, free eveything and then still having spare money to go out on the lash and dump babies with other people.
But don't worry, its not just the youngsters I'm pissed off with....ex-boyfriend's ex-wife has two kids by two different men, neither of which she is currently with. She's my age and, again, gets rent paid, benefits etc and has now been told her kids are old enough for her to go back to work....but, of course, she can't possibly go back to work, as she has no qualifications, so she gets college courses paid for (3 so far, only 1 she has completed). My husband is desperate to get a better job, but can't afford to do these courses.
So, because I worked hard, got a career and waited until I met the right person and struggled to buy our home and worked my arse off (70 hours a week) to pay all the extras in the first year. What do we get??? Infertility and struggling to make ends meet, while my taxes are paying for those silly girls to have nights out and numerous college courses. Just because they were irresponsible and stupid.
So, my message to anyone in those scenarios, or thinking it might be a nice idea? Get a friggin job, wait until you can pay your own way in life and stop scrounging off me, so I can afford my family!!!!!
There. Breath....
Here goes...
The apparently growing number of 16,17,18 yr olds who are getting knocked up by randoms and having their lives handed to them on a plate. Getting rent paid, vouchers for shopping, free eveything and then still having spare money to go out on the lash and dump babies with other people.
But don't worry, its not just the youngsters I'm pissed off with....ex-boyfriend's ex-wife has two kids by two different men, neither of which she is currently with. She's my age and, again, gets rent paid, benefits etc and has now been told her kids are old enough for her to go back to work....but, of course, she can't possibly go back to work, as she has no qualifications, so she gets college courses paid for (3 so far, only 1 she has completed). My husband is desperate to get a better job, but can't afford to do these courses.
So, because I worked hard, got a career and waited until I met the right person and struggled to buy our home and worked my arse off (70 hours a week) to pay all the extras in the first year. What do we get??? Infertility and struggling to make ends meet, while my taxes are paying for those silly girls to have nights out and numerous college courses. Just because they were irresponsible and stupid.
So, my message to anyone in those scenarios, or thinking it might be a nice idea? Get a friggin job, wait until you can pay your own way in life and stop scrounging off me, so I can afford my family!!!!!
There. Breath....
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I find the way the world works very very bizare!!!!
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. On way in was a 16 pregnant girl
heavily pregnant smoking! I could not believe it. Felt like crying.
Why oh why can't I have a baby! We deserve one more than her!
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its ok we all deserve a moan lol
do u no what am really sick of tryin and tryin and ivf
and tests injections waiting scans etc lol
i want a life without the ttc Elements! My next ivf starts few months and if it doesn't work i just am gonna be so sad. But least am ready for it this time. . No good eggs i wasn't ready for lol.
Ladies you all so strong. . All on same journey.
If i had already a child it wouldn't be so tough but i have nil and that's the hardest part knowing i might never be a mum x x