planning anymore?
so who is thinking about the next?
we wanted another but since having my second emergency section were not so sure, hubby doesnt like the idea of me going through surgery again and i'm not keen myself, but i dont like to think that i'll never be pregnant again x
we wanted another but since having my second emergency section were not so sure, hubby doesnt like the idea of me going through surgery again and i'm not keen myself, but i dont like to think that i'll never be pregnant again x
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I surprised myself this week by thinking I would like to have another in the not too distant future. But in reality I think I will be afraid for a little while to come
Due to the complications of pregnancy that I suffer from the consultant has strongly advised me never to become pregnant again as the strain could be too much this time on my heart, lungs, pelvic area! (he did say that last time!!) My husband agreed with me that this was it as I couldn't take any more, plus the financial implications and lack of room in the house.
However he is now saying he won't have the snip as we might change our mind in a couple of years!!and that he would possibly want more (he will be disappointed!)
I am sad that i will never have that pregnant feeling again and the newborn moments of meeting baby for the first time but I am lucky to have my 3 as we were told we would probably never have kids and don't think I could take the possibility of my risk of even more miscarriages.
I am trying to enjoy every moment I can with Emilie-May as a newborn as well as my sons before i return to work in January.
If I won the lottery I might be persuaded (the joy of private health care to help me thorugh it!!!)
Il ove my Phoebe to bits and don't want to share myself to any other children. I feel that my family is complete and have told hubby that he is for the chop lol
So as of right now my answer is no more. (give me a few years and maybe I will want another.... if hubby lets me!) xxx
I don't mind the idea of not being pregnant again as I had morning sickness the whole way through both pregnancies!
If we had an 'accident' it wouldn't be the worst thing, but I definitely don't think there will be any more planned babies for us.
I also found labour much more painful second time around and like thehoads I knew I could do it again after MissG, but after MasterG, I'm not so sure! Might have been the difference between a 6lb baby and a 9lb baby!!
Good luck to all of you who are opting in for another one
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Now we have our gorgeous girl and boy which we feel so lucky for like Shelley5185 said my hubby is up for the snip! I love my 2 but hate pregnancy and just feel like we are the complete unit now and the thought of never being pregnant again just fills me with joy!!! I know I am probably alone with this one! X