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Feeling worse than ever now...
Hi everyone,
After seeing our dr about our lack of bfps, he immediately sent us for bloods and SA tests....which is brilliant coz I thought we would have to fight to be sent for tests (I have heard/read about a lot of unsympathetic drs). Anyway, I should feel better now knowing that we were taken seriously, however, since seeing the dr a week ago I have been feeling worse than ever about our lack of baby. I feel so pessimistic about the outcome of the tests and I have been crying even more than usual in the last week. I had Day 2 bloods done on Friday and I feel so nervous about the results. I keep thinking that it doesn't matter that I have fairly regular cycles and that they are going to discover that my egg reserve is low or poor quality or that I'm not ovulating. Its driving me mad.
Is this a normal reaction or am I going even loopier than normal? I hate being this way.
After seeing our dr about our lack of bfps, he immediately sent us for bloods and SA tests....which is brilliant coz I thought we would have to fight to be sent for tests (I have heard/read about a lot of unsympathetic drs). Anyway, I should feel better now knowing that we were taken seriously, however, since seeing the dr a week ago I have been feeling worse than ever about our lack of baby. I feel so pessimistic about the outcome of the tests and I have been crying even more than usual in the last week. I had Day 2 bloods done on Friday and I feel so nervous about the results. I keep thinking that it doesn't matter that I have fairly regular cycles and that they are going to discover that my egg reserve is low or poor quality or that I'm not ovulating. Its driving me mad.
Is this a normal reaction or am I going even loopier than normal? I hate being this way.
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Don't beat yourself up! Everyone is totally different and deals wth things in their own way. I have good days and bad days, although I am also finding things particularly hard at the mo. Men seem completely unaware of what this situation does to our mental health, too!
Look at at this way, though. If they don't find anything wrong, thats great, but if they do, they can start doing something about it. Very rarely do they ever find something that completely writes you off! If they find something, it will probably be quite straight-forward and simple to sort out.
Take care xx
As windymiller says.. DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP ABOUT IT!! I know its easier said than done
When do u find out the results???
Chin up hun xx
I have an appt in 3 weeks for my 21 day bloods so will get the results in about a month. It is going to be a very looooooooong month for me! Yesterday and today I have been so anxious that my chest has been feeling really tight like I can't breathe. I wish I could go to sleep and wake up in 3 weeks time!!!
We're waiting for my Dh's SA re-test at the moment we've had to wait 12 long weeks, the waiting is driving me mad. I keep ticking off the days in the calendar as I'm desparate for some feedback so that we can start moving forward whatever the outcome good or bad.
FC all goes well for you hun, try not to stress. I'm trying to think like the others girls have said - there is loadssss that they can do to help today.
On another note, I just read this article which is fantastic news about IVF:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2050297/IVF-test-guarantees-success-available-months.html