just had scan. no heartbeat :(
Hi everybody,
Sorry to put such a downer on things on here, just been for my 12 weeks scan and she said to open my top button as it was a low and then she was very vague. I said well can you see a baby and she was like erm yes but we need to do an internal scan, i said well at 12 wks u shunt have to have an internal u should be able to see it. She then said but i cant find a heartbeat and need to do it. I was told to go to the toilet, come back, undress and she did it with a second lady. After 10 minutes she told us. We were led into a room and told to make a decision, have a tablet and come bk in 2 days to pass it or have an op, she just kept saying well what do you want to do,
Felt like saying i dont want to do owt! Just want my scan pic n to go. We have come home nw and i have to ring when i have decided. But i dont want to decide.
Sorry to go on. We had only just come to terms with having this baby as he had snip bk in june, and was a shock!
The biggest good luck ever to any ladies still due their scans and massive congratulations to all who have had theirs and are nw protectively loving their bumps xx
Sorry to put such a downer on things on here, just been for my 12 weeks scan and she said to open my top button as it was a low and then she was very vague. I said well can you see a baby and she was like erm yes but we need to do an internal scan, i said well at 12 wks u shunt have to have an internal u should be able to see it. She then said but i cant find a heartbeat and need to do it. I was told to go to the toilet, come back, undress and she did it with a second lady. After 10 minutes she told us. We were led into a room and told to make a decision, have a tablet and come bk in 2 days to pass it or have an op, she just kept saying well what do you want to do,
Felt like saying i dont want to do owt! Just want my scan pic n to go. We have come home nw and i have to ring when i have decided. But i dont want to decide.
Sorry to go on. We had only just come to terms with having this baby as he had snip bk in june, and was a shock!
The biggest good luck ever to any ladies still due their scans and massive congratulations to all who have had theirs and are nw protectively loving their bumps xx
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You are in my thoughts,
Baby_Princess
Lots of love xxxxx
Huge hugs. Please let us know how you are. X
Hope you all have enjoyable happy and healthy 6 months ahead x
i had a missed miscarriage in April, I would have been due last week, it never leaves you. They said baby got to 7-8 weeks, I,m now pregnant again, and had a 9 and 10 week scan, which were great but am still very nervous for 13 week scan on wed.
It doesn't make it any easier but miscarriages are very common, and a lot of women and couples will understand exactly how you feel. It made my relationship with husband stronger
I too had a d&c , I had to take tablets that am, and they gave me the most awful cramps I ever had in my life, I thought I was going to die. But before you know it, you,re in, and then you,re out., I was in daze and was numb the week end we found out and the day of the procedure. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy and my heart goes out to you and your partner. Nothing anyone can say will help, its something you have to just get through and I don't think I.l ever forget that baby.
coco