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Miscarrying- early pregnancy
Hi I'm new to this forum thing but a friend has directed me to this website. Could anyone help me? I found out I was pregnant couple of weeks ago. I was absolutely ecstatic as my partner and I had only been trying the last few months or so. 8 days ago I started bleeding spotting at first but it quickly got heavier and it is still going now I thought it may have been slowing but today it's heavier again. I know I'm miscarrying as I know this isn't right. I just want it to be over. How long will it take to stop? I would be 6 weeks this week. I have spoken with a midwife over the phone she just told me to leave it and let it happen and keep testing to check the hcg levels. Has anyone else experienced this. I just need some advice/support?
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Good luck and go get yourself checked out properly.
Sorry to hear your news, I hope you find us all here very supportive as did I when i had my 2 m/c. Don't think I wouldv'e coped as well as I did if I didn't have the girls on here to talk to.
I have to say though I agree with GreyMum, thats not good advice you should def call EPAU asap & either get a ref from your doc or book an appointment directly with EPAU. Have you had any pain with the bleeding or clots? Lots of people bleed in early pregnancy and its not always bad news. You must get yourself checked out if not it will drive you insane, try & keep your chin up, we've all been through it & it will get easier, trust me i know, sending you big hugs, xxx
Yes we all know its one of those things but doesn't make it any easier for us.
Don't forget we're all in the same boat on here & will always be here if you need a chat or a rant about anything. Keep in touch & let us know how you get on at docs
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Apparantly you are more fertile within the first few weeks of m/c so it is def possible to conceive without having AF. The cramps could've been ov but if you had slight spotting it is prob your body getting back to normal.
I thought I was back to normal but AF was due on 9th nov & still no sign, have done 2 tests but both BPN
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