Am really sorry that you are feeling sad. It's really disappointing when thaty happens, especially if your body has been playing tricks. However on the postive side you have another month of bding which isn't a bad thing plus every time I get my af my husband treats me to a chinese so you oculd try and give yourself a special treat to cheer yourself up x
I agree, it's good to have something lined up to make yourself feel a bit better if you get your AF. I like the idea of a Chinese!
We are going away for 2 nights to a lovely hotel and spa the second weekend in Feb, and so as much as I desperately want to have a BFP this month, if I don't, I will use all the lovely spa facilities (which I won't be able to if I'm pregnant).
I think that if it's a BFN this month, I will plan something exciting for just after my next testing time, so I have something nice if I get a BFN again next month.
It's still hard, but at least we can get a nice treat.
Oh- and i just realised that I would be due to OV about 4 days after our stay at the lovely hotel, so we could be properly trying over that weekend and you never know! That would be a nice way to conceive!
You girls are all so lovely , thank u so much for responding it really helps . Im feeling much better now.
Emily -thats a fab idea about chinese i ll defo try that with dh .
Mojacobs - we are alsi going to a hotel spa break either next weekend or one after , if we can book that quickly. Dh bought it for my birthday last yr and not got round to using as i was also worried about not neing able to use facilities but as af got me we decided to try m book it hopefully valentines weekend which coincides ( hopefully ) with ovulation !!!!
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Am really sorry that you are feeling sad. It's really disappointing when thaty happens, especially if your body has been playing tricks. However on the postive side you have another month of bding which isn't a bad thing plus every time I get my af my husband treats me to a chinese so you oculd try and give yourself a special treat to cheer yourself up x
I will cross my fingers for you for next month- I have a good feeling!xx
We are going away for 2 nights to a lovely hotel and spa the second weekend in Feb, and so as much as I desperately want to have a BFP this month, if I don't, I will use all the lovely spa facilities (which I won't be able to if I'm pregnant).
I think that if it's a BFN this month, I will plan something exciting for just after my next testing time, so I have something nice if I get a BFN again next month.
It's still hard, but at least we can get a nice treat.
I'm onto month 4 now too, fingers crossed that this is our month! xx
Emily -thats a fab idea about chinese i ll defo try that with dh .
Mojacobs - we are alsi going to a hotel spa break either next weekend or one after , if we can book that quickly. Dh bought it for my birthday last yr and not got round to using as i was also worried about not neing able to use facilities but as af got me we decided to try m book it hopefully valentines weekend which coincides ( hopefully ) with ovulation !!!!
Wish me luck !!!!
Baby dust to you all xxxc