Keeping it quiet....
...is a complete and utter nightmare!
I have so much on over the next 6 weeks, 2 weddings, a hen do and 2 girls nights out (ones tonight) and I'm having to think of excuses all the time as to why i can't drink. Everyone will be thinking I am piling weight on, my tummy appears to have popped out and no amount of breathing in helps....it was not this bad first time around. At this rate I am going to resemble a beached whale
Why oh why can't we be 12 weeks already?!
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Ooooh antibiotics is a good one! Hopefully they won't dig any further to find out why you're on them lol xx
Ps I'll give u York ladies a wave! x
totally forgot about alchol free wine, the fake vodka could work as well, if i make sure i'm the one going to the bar for the drinks, and thankfully by time next set of nights out come round i'll be at my 12 weeks x
I'm going to a friend's for dinner next weekend and there will be lots of women from work there. Really dnt want them to find out. Also Drading it as there's no way I can buy fake drinks or sneak non-alcoholic wine. Considering saying DH is working a nightshift (which he does very often) so I will be the only one in the house overnight with DD which means no drinking. This is not actually a policy I ALWAYS live by but it sounds plausible right???
I agree its soooo hard to keep quiet. I never have before but want to this time but its so hard esp since I cant hold my own water
We had a family party today for dds birthday and it was so hard hiding my tiredness and sickness... then to top it off, mil, my mum and hubbys aunt decided to have a conversation on when and if we wil have number 3 - felt like they knew argh!!!
I've let it slip to quite a few people already, much to OH's annoyance! He's struggling to find a job and says he wants to wait until he's got a job to tell people, but in my eyes I could be 20 weeks before he gets a job! By which point, people will most likely be asking anyway. I'm finding it really hard to keep my mouth shut lol xx
I've also told our neighbours, which is really random. A cat was attacked and killed by a dog on our drive on Wednesday night/thurs morning. I'd gone out to knock on our neighbours door, as they have two cats and I was concerned it was there's. It wasn't but when my neighbour was moving the cat he was struggling with the bag and Asked for help so I had to tell him.
thot of another good excuse today, that will be a good not drinking one, an inflammed stomach, and actually something i genuinely have but its not normally irritated by alcohol, but nobody knows that x