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boyfriend driving me mad !!
i am expecting my baby in may 2008 i a so happy and over joyed like most mums to be but my boyfriend is making me feel like i am going to be doing all this alone. he works nights so i see him once a week i dont feel like we are in a relationship at all more of a convenience. he has even put in for overtime with no mention to buying the baby anything just his sodding car!! he does nort seem intrested but in front of his mates he shows off saying hes going to be a dad ect ect like its a n ego boost am i right for been a tad upset or am i the one in the wrong plz help x
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You are certainly not in the wrong with the way you are feeling. It's an emotional time (also happiness) but there is, at least for me, apprehension and fear. It's a big thing having a baby and probably one of the most life changing events you will ever have.
It seems you need to tell him in straight in my view (but then I am a very straight to the point person). If I were you I would do less around the house, particularly if it involves picking up after your other half. He's going to have to learn very quickly that you will need a help and this is a good time to start. Go on strike that's always effective. He will soon moan when he has nothing clean in the wardrobe and even then, don't relent. Just stick it out.
Clatter
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BTW I'm due May 2008 too!
[Modified by: Clatterbelle on November 25, 2007 09:22 AM]