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labour worries
right well this is my first baby and i dnt have a clue about labour i know im worrying over nothing i hope wen me and oh have sex and its a little ruff (sorry) it hurts after and he said that im 'tight' and i just thought the size of his d1ck compared to the size of the babys head worries me?? i know its compleatly normal and all stretches but im just worryin!
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Women give birth everyday and have been doing so for years.
As for your BF, if he is being rough with you when he is having sex he needs a fucking slap. Yoi are having a baby.. he needs to be told that he has to calm down and be gentle with you. That said if you know it hurts why let him have sex with you in the first place?
You should not have pain after sex, and the fact that the sex is rough is what is causing the pain probably. My BF is not small, and I don't get pain, if I did I wouldn't be having sex at all.
I also THINK that it is natural to be worried about child birth when it is your first baby. I won't lie it is going to hurt like hell, but like I said, women have been doing it for a long time and all will be OK.
with the labour you body produces hormones in order for you to contract which makes you dilate therefore it is completely different to sex which you already know. I still thinkits amzing how something that big can come out of something that small but believe me it does and if you do have trouble and its not big enough you may need a little cut, but believe me when that babies head is there you will not care! I remember with my second to trace her heartbeat better they had to stick a monitor to her head whilst she was inside me and that felt like they shoved there whole arm up! You wont care once they are coming though and trust me the pain of it all will be forgotton as soon as your babies in your arms!
If if was that bad i really wouldnt be on my 3rd in 3 years! Either that or I have issues lol!!
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As you can tell my hubby is now getting quite desperate lol but oh well.
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I mean ya gonna be a mum, u will need to spell properly when ya teaching your child!!!!
I wasn't being bitchy believe me, if you want bitchy I can be.. ask Tigerlilly lol
I was only responding to what was being put on here. I mean if someone said to you the sex was rough and it hurt after wouldn't the obvious advice be to stop lol!!!!
Obviously i got it wrong and i am sorry!
i dont know how many weeks you are but im only 13 weeks and worried already lol
we can worry tgether hun lol
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If you are sore after sex it may mean that you are not wet enough (sorry if tmi) when you are pregnant something happens, i'm not exactly sure what, that stops you getting as wet. Maybe a lube would help. There is nothing wrong with a bit of rough and tumble as long as it's not squishing your belly, your baby is well protected in there. I also started to find sex a little more uncomfortable afterwards so we had more foreplay than normal to 'loosen' things up lol (again way to much info).
Labour is a terrifying thing as it is something some of us have never done before (including me) and everyone is scared of the unknown. There is a website I went on called www.birthstories.com which has loads of different birth stories including some very graphic photos its absolutely fascinating and really put my mind at ease because you just have to look at the faces of the women giving birth at the end of it and they look so invigorated (sp) and I can't wait to feel like that. I think about it like this, its a very short space in time in my life and the end result (the baby) will give me years and years of pleasure
I hope this helps a little.
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