Feeling like s**t and needing a rant (sorry)
Hi all I will apoligise in advance for this as it is a rant.
AS most know I am pregnant with my third and after 2 girls having a little boy so its all still a little new for me!
Well me and husband have not been getting along for a couple of months now, just bickering and picking holes in one another! Well recently its got worse and I just cant take anymore I really love him but cant stand him at the same time! Instead of beng supportive when I am feeling low he seems to be sarcastic about it and makes me feel worse. The list can go on with things lately but I dont want to bore you, but today he has left. We had an even bigger row and now he has gone to stay at his mums! The worst thing is I dont know if I want him back! I do everyting by myself anyway and is harder having him here, he is a nightclub manager so when he is here he sleeps and I struggle to stop the girls going in and out of the bedroom. I know a lot of this may be my hormones and probably a little snappy but I would just appreciate his support!
On top of that my washing machne broke last week and had someone out now we are waiting for parts and could take another few weeks, so thats been a nightmare with handwashing!
Then just to round everything off my youngest daughter is 16 months and her feet turn in extremely bad when she walks which has already slowed her development, but may have to have her left ankle broken and re-set I know this will be best for her growing up as my feet turn in not as bad as hers but I did get bullied from it and I ended up breaking my foot whilst running as I tripped over my own feet(it was a funny sight at the time). I am just extremely worried for my little one as it sounds so horrible.
I think I just needed to offload as I have probably been bottling this up and sorry for this, I am normally pretty cherpy.
Thanks for listening xxx
AS most know I am pregnant with my third and after 2 girls having a little boy so its all still a little new for me!
Well me and husband have not been getting along for a couple of months now, just bickering and picking holes in one another! Well recently its got worse and I just cant take anymore I really love him but cant stand him at the same time! Instead of beng supportive when I am feeling low he seems to be sarcastic about it and makes me feel worse. The list can go on with things lately but I dont want to bore you, but today he has left. We had an even bigger row and now he has gone to stay at his mums! The worst thing is I dont know if I want him back! I do everyting by myself anyway and is harder having him here, he is a nightclub manager so when he is here he sleeps and I struggle to stop the girls going in and out of the bedroom. I know a lot of this may be my hormones and probably a little snappy but I would just appreciate his support!
On top of that my washing machne broke last week and had someone out now we are waiting for parts and could take another few weeks, so thats been a nightmare with handwashing!
Then just to round everything off my youngest daughter is 16 months and her feet turn in extremely bad when she walks which has already slowed her development, but may have to have her left ankle broken and re-set I know this will be best for her growing up as my feet turn in not as bad as hers but I did get bullied from it and I ended up breaking my foot whilst running as I tripped over my own feet(it was a funny sight at the time). I am just extremely worried for my little one as it sounds so horrible.
I think I just needed to offload as I have probably been bottling this up and sorry for this, I am normally pretty cherpy.
Thanks for listening xxx
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Please don't be getting upset (easier said than done I know), your hormones are all over the place & your feelings do change for people when you are PG. I've realised that there are some people I can no longer listen to without picking holes in their conversations or wanting to scream at them to shut up!
Perhaps you & your hubby having some time apart will do you good even though it doesn't feel like it at the moment, absence makes the heart grow fonder & all that. If it makes you decide you actually don't want him about any more I think the best thing for you to do is tell him how your feeling & if you can do this by talking things though who knows what the outcome may be.
This is a terrible worry for you with your daughter but as you say it will be best for her in the long run.
I don't really know what else to say to you except keep your chin up & try not to worry too much, things will sort themselves out.
Take care,
Lauren (35+3) xxx
Crotchetmum, sorry to hear about your troubles as if pregnancy isnt enough to worry about! It just feels like it doesnt just rain it pours which doesnt help.
I know if my little girl needs the op she will be fine and a lot better in the long run, it just all sounds so horrible.
Thanks to everyone for replying I wouldnt know what to do without this site sometimes!
There should be some sort of school we send this men to to help them learn how to deal with us pregnant women!
xx
It must be so awful to watch your lo have an operation but it does sound like it would be better for her in the long run...it doesn't sound nice but when she is 16 she won't have any memory of it and will probably be glad you made that choice for her.
Me & my oh have had quite a few problems over the last few months so you're definitely not alone. Sometimes I do think god it would be sooo much easier if I didn't have him, but I know it wouldn't be deep down, I just have anxieties about how we'll cope as parents. But you have obviously raised 2 girls very well, so I am sure things will work out soon. Maybe a bit of space is what u both need. xxx