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Men are evil
Hi,
Just wanted to share a quick story as it has upset me a little. I went out to get lunch today and was walking accross the crossing to get to the sandwich shop, there was a car waiting at the traffic lights with two guys in it laughing, they then leaned out of the car and shouted at me "oi look at you, you fat bitch I'm suprised to can walk!!" I looked around and saw there was no one else there so they must have been shouting at me, so I scurried off and had a cry round the corner. I called my husband and he went mad and was really upset for me then spent 10 mins reassuring me that I wasn't fat and that I was actually beautiful and pregnant and that all men are wankers (except him of course lol).
I just can't believe two people would do that I felt completely humiliated I'm nearly 25 weeks pregnant and I'm still wearing size 14, which I don't think is huge but I do have a reasonable sized bump but I would say I def look pregnant rather than fat. It has really put a downer on my week as I was in such a good mood until then, now I just feel tired, fat and miserable and incredibly self consicous.
Caz
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Just wanted to share a quick story as it has upset me a little. I went out to get lunch today and was walking accross the crossing to get to the sandwich shop, there was a car waiting at the traffic lights with two guys in it laughing, they then leaned out of the car and shouted at me "oi look at you, you fat bitch I'm suprised to can walk!!" I looked around and saw there was no one else there so they must have been shouting at me, so I scurried off and had a cry round the corner. I called my husband and he went mad and was really upset for me then spent 10 mins reassuring me that I wasn't fat and that I was actually beautiful and pregnant and that all men are wankers (except him of course lol).
I just can't believe two people would do that I felt completely humiliated I'm nearly 25 weeks pregnant and I'm still wearing size 14, which I don't think is huge but I do have a reasonable sized bump but I would say I def look pregnant rather than fat. It has really put a downer on my week as I was in such a good mood until then, now I just feel tired, fat and miserable and incredibly self consicous.
Caz
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Tammi
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they were prob stupid little boys who have nothin else to do with there time. you sound like you have a proper pregnancy bump so as hard as it is ignore him.
eitha that or hunt them down, get some nut crackers and castrate them slowly which would be my plan, oooh the hormones and the joy they bring!!lol.
hope your feeling better after speakin to your hubby hunni?
dont let a couple of compete twats (excuse the french) get you down as they are just jealous that you are able to have a baby - i suspect they have very small, tiny in fact, willies and not able to!! hannah xxx
My hubby is very protective over me at the mo so I could just imagine him coming down and sitting at the crossing waiting for them to come back so he could do some ass kickin' lol.
I was just so shocked I didn't really know what to do, if I had been a bit more confident I would have shouted something back but I am a wuss lol
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Babyfizz is probably right....no willies!!
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I haven't had anything shouted at me before so I had no idea how to react, really wish I hadn't cried in public though it was quite embarrasing.
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hope your ok zoey as id read the threads and know you have had a disappointment? hannah xxx
I don't know why people seem to think it is their god given right to call you names or make comments to you just because you are pregnant, they wouldn't do it to an over weight person so why do it to us.
I get called "the lumpy one" at work now and although it's light hearted it really does my head in, plus they use my pregnancy as an excuse for everything.
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i think people think you wont take it to heart but the people most likely to take it to heart are pregnant women DOH!! it got so bad iv just had 3 weeks off with stress and discovered this site so not all bad!goin back on monday - boohoo. spit in their tea - makes me feel better! (evil laugh) hannah xxx
Anyway i'm telling you this just to show you there are little pricks everywhere!! It's not your Luv I am sure you are beautiful because all pregnant women are even if we dont feel it! why people have the right to comment and make stupid remarks god only knows but all it shows me is that clearly they must have a low self esteem to have to pick on a pregnant woman to feel better about them selves! wouldnt you love to put them in a room with ALL of US and see how brave they are when there is a bunch of hormonal angry girls! xxx
Anyway i'm telling you this just to show you there are little pricks everywhere!! It's not your Luv I am sure you are beautiful because all pregnant women are even if we dont feel it! why people have the right to comment and make stupid remarks god only knows but all it shows me is that clearly they must have a low self esteem to have to pick on a pregnant woman to feel better about them selves! wouldnt you love to put them in a room with ALL of US and see how brave they are when there is a bunch of hormonal angry girls! xxx
If it helps next time let me know and i can maybe distract them by flashing them my wobbly bits post pg then they'll see ur some real chub!!
Or u could go down the slightly childish route of i'm pg whats ur excuse?!
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I'm the same as you, I still wear a size 14 but my bump is huge. If someone called me a fat cow I would be sooooo angry and upset. People do think they have a right to say stuff just because you're pregnant.
Babyfizz is right you should take her advice!
i would of been so angry lol same as yu .
am size 14 n 20 wks pregnant