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Pregnant and people treating me differently at work!
I feel really fed up at the moment. Why do people presume that because you are having a baby your job suddenly becomes worthless?! I am in the senior management team in school and also work for the local education authority. The other day I find out that the education authority have given all the stuff I do for them to other people to do because they thought with me having a baby I wouldn't want to do it anymore when I go back to work. They never asked me what I wanted! And tonight I just get a phone call from someone I work with at school and she mentioned that another teacher in my school is doing this leadership course from September that the head asked me to do (I said I would do it). I am so mad. This teacher isn't on the leadership team and is looking for another job anyway. I feel really pushed out and that people are using the fact that I'm pregnant as a reason for not asking if I want to do something. I love my job and everyone knows this, I wish people would ask me what I want to do and not presume that because in July I will have a baby that my job will not matter anymore. I've worked really hard to get where I am and I was so looking forward to doing this leadership course and I love the work I do for the eduaction authority - they seemed really surprised when I said I was happy to carry on doing what I did and were quite grovelling to me but it doesn't make up for it.
I'm thinking that I'll end up going back to work to find all my responsibilities given to everyone else and all I've worked for gone. The more I think about it the more upset I get. I'm so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really feel like not going to work tomorrow.
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I'm thinking that I'll end up going back to work to find all my responsibilities given to everyone else and all I've worked for gone. The more I think about it the more upset I get. I'm so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really feel like not going to work tomorrow.
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Did they tell you they had stopped training you because you were pregnany Tallkatie2?
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Am pleased you feel the same Zoey! I think people think they are being kind by not giving us stuff to do but it's so annoying.
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you should find out your maternity rights and maternity policies that your work has which all work places are supposed to have.
you are supposed to have the same job, responsiblities when u return to work as you did before you left.
they should also have a meeting ( a risk assesment ) with you before changing any of your responsibilities whilst you are in work and pregnant.
please dont put up with this ladies i had a bad time in work , and i understand how u all feel. as soon as i found out my rights and told work they soon changed.
its a very seriouse issue discriminating against a pregnant woman at work. i think there's some advice and a phone number in the pregnacy book that you recive in your bounty pack.
hope thats helped.
good luck
donna 37 + 3 )