not sure what to do
hi girls,
im really in 2 minds as to what i should do...............
im 36 weeks pregnant today and im really starting to struggle with getting to work and actually being there, i dont really have far to go but it is a bus ride and im struggling to walk down the road!!!
a 10 min walk is currently taking me about 30 mins im in agony with my pelvis it just feels like the baby is really really low now the thing is im ment to be working today and tommorrow of this week and tuesday to saturday of next week then thats it but im not sure im gonna be able to make it that far!!!!!!!!
when i ask oh what i should do he just says u will be ok i dont think he realises how much pain im in even tho when i get up to go kitchen or bathroom he can see im in pain!!!
i just dont want to go in today call up and say im gonna go a week early and then sit at home thinking oh i could of worked!!!!
help!!!!
im really in 2 minds as to what i should do...............
im 36 weeks pregnant today and im really starting to struggle with getting to work and actually being there, i dont really have far to go but it is a bus ride and im struggling to walk down the road!!!
a 10 min walk is currently taking me about 30 mins im in agony with my pelvis it just feels like the baby is really really low now the thing is im ment to be working today and tommorrow of this week and tuesday to saturday of next week then thats it but im not sure im gonna be able to make it that far!!!!!!!!
when i ask oh what i should do he just says u will be ok i dont think he realises how much pain im in even tho when i get up to go kitchen or bathroom he can see im in pain!!!
i just dont want to go in today call up and say im gonna go a week early and then sit at home thinking oh i could of worked!!!!
help!!!!
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Sounds like your body is telling you to take it easy. You need to listen to that. Maybe it is time for you to be at home and prepare for lo's arrival. If your in that much pain just moving around the house then you definately should not be going to far anyway.
Good luck hun and listen to your body.
As for what your oh says, I think men sometimes think pregnant women just moan for the sake of it, but of course they'll never ever understand what it's like!!!!!
I would say your ready to finish! If your in pain then thats your body's way if telling you to slow down and take it easy. Speak to your boss and see what he/she says. You cant keep going in if your in pain, its not fair on you and you wont enjoy the last few weeks of your pregnancy.
xxx
i have a docs appointment tommorrow morning so will see what he says maybe he will sign me off for the last week??? hopeful thinking maybe???
if he doesnt i think i will start maternity early i have had enough now!!!
xx
Hope you get to leave early hun as I know how pants your place of work is for you anyway!!
Katie and bambino.x x x
just got home from work i have been in agony all day so i have made my mind up to stop work now im gonna go docs in the morning and then call work and say thats it enough is enough, i have already told them i wont be in tommorrow and they have said it will be an unpaid leave i said i dont really care!!!