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Hi Ladies
I have posted this on ttc aswell but your advice would be great
Hubby and I are on month 7 of ttc and I have been off the pill for about 6 years now! I had problems with blood pressure etc whilst I was on it so hubby and I decided to just use condoms and we were always really careful
I have regular periods and signs that I ov every month.
Anyway I was talking to my cousin today about ttc and how it can take an average couple a year to get pregnant and she said why would it take me so long to get pregnant when I have been off the pill for so long!
She knows nothing about ttc so don't know why this has worried me but does it still take so long even though I have been off the pill so long?
Any advice would be great, thanks xx
I have posted this on ttc aswell but your advice would be great
Hubby and I are on month 7 of ttc and I have been off the pill for about 6 years now! I had problems with blood pressure etc whilst I was on it so hubby and I decided to just use condoms and we were always really careful
I have regular periods and signs that I ov every month.
Anyway I was talking to my cousin today about ttc and how it can take an average couple a year to get pregnant and she said why would it take me so long to get pregnant when I have been off the pill for so long!
She knows nothing about ttc so don't know why this has worried me but does it still take so long even though I have been off the pill so long?
Any advice would be great, thanks xx
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carly 26+1
My advice would be to cut down on smoking/alcohol if you haven't already as they can reduce fertility. But most importantly, have lots of sex! Every other day from when your period finishes until the next one is due is the ideal, but if you have work commitments/other reasons why you can't manage that, then try to work out when you usually ovulate each month (you'll get lots of help with that on the TTC forum if you need it, the girls are great!). Then you can concentrate your baby-making efforts around the 3 days before ovulation, the day itself and the day after. If you miss a time when you intended to have sex, don't beat yourselves up over it, just catch up when you get the chance. It's important not to let it become a chore - enjoy yourselves .
Good luck hun!
xx
Good luck with the rest of your pregnancies, thanks again x