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Should I Be Upset
Hello Everyone
Me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 6 months, My older sister got married 2 weeks ago and is on honeymoon at the moment she called our mum last night to say she is pregnant. They have been trying for a few weeks!!!! I know i should be happy for her so why do i feel so upset??
Any Ideas or Happy Thoughts...
Me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 6 months, My older sister got married 2 weeks ago and is on honeymoon at the moment she called our mum last night to say she is pregnant. They have been trying for a few weeks!!!! I know i should be happy for her so why do i feel so upset??
Any Ideas or Happy Thoughts...
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i couldnt even walk round tesco (how maany newborns do u see in there!)
all my mum kept saying to me was that it will b my turn one day n it happend, (21 weeks now)
n all i can do is say same to u.
just keep ya chin up!!!!
I hope you get some good news of your own very soon- it'd be lovely for you and your sister to share the experience together, so it could all work out for the best. I know it must feel like a long time (it took us 4 months this time which felt like forever!), but 6 months isn't a huge time to be trying- as I'm sure you know up to 12 months is "normal"- so hopefully it'll happen for you v soon.
Hang in there xxx
My best friend has been trying for 2 years and she hasn't spoken to me since i told her i was pregnant. Don't end up like us xxx
it will be hard when she is so excited but you have to be happy for her, even tho you might not feel it!
good luck and hope your BFP arrives soon xxxx
when i was expecting my son i didnt know till i was 23 weeks , then a week after i found out my sister annouced that she was 20 weeks and didnt know , we have never really seen eye to eye there has been quite alot of rivalry she attention seeks loads so i was happy but really really hoping my baby arrived 1st to be the 1st grandchild !we did get on through our pregnancies and then 3 weeks before i was due she said she might have to be induced and a part of me was gutted i so badly wanted the limelight to be on me for a change ....i feel so so so guilty now cos she wasnt induced and 6 days after my son was born he daughter was still born ......i feel worse for the fact i was jelous she was pregnant at the same time !!
so although its really hard hun try not to show her your upset cos she will resent it my sister does ....x x x x x
Hope you get your bfp soon hun.
xxx