the IN laws!!! Grrr ***kinda an update****
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why do the in laws not appreciate i am a hormonal mess??
So I'm now 3 days over due- not been out of the house in 2 weeks due to the weather and sdp so i'm a little bit P**sed off to say the least!
obviously i'm getting calls and texts asking me if i've had baby yet (like i wouldn't be announcing it from the roof tops if i had) I can understand getting these calls from me friends- but from family??? Of course i'll tell them straight away!!!
but whats sent me in a tizzy today is the in (out) laws. well my mil actually- she seems to think i can pick and choose when i give birth!!!! :roll: The last wk she tells me sha has booked a holiday for the 20th (the day i'll be induced if he doesn't come on his own) she asked if i could have him the wkend just gone or this wkend at the latest!!! (yeah sure not a problem- let me get my diary out!!)
Now she asked me not to have him on valentines as pil is taking her out for a meal :x
Does she not realise i cant choose when he comes???? :roll:
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omg these ppl get on my last nerve....... my pil is a plumber and fitted us a new boiler 4 months ago - its broken down twice now! so it broke down last night at about 8.30- it was already -2 outside. pil said he'll come fix it tomorrow night (friday) Now am i crazy selfish to think he should come fix it asap due to the fact i could go into labour at anytime (now 5 days over due) and i'll be wanting a bath to ease the pain, and also not be freezing my arse off!!!!
I also worry that i could in theory have a new born baby at home- and i'd have no heating or hot water, and my pil thinks that little of us he can't come out and fix it. I'm so upset about the matter (bloody hormones)
OH wanted to send me to my mums but i dont want to be without him when i could pop at anytime!!
i'm so :x and
(btw the old boiler worked fine it had only been in 2.5yrs- but pil didn't know how to maintain it or something thats why he got us a new one)
[Modified by: waterbaby on 13 February 2009 01:03:34 ]
why do the in laws not appreciate i am a hormonal mess??
So I'm now 3 days over due- not been out of the house in 2 weeks due to the weather and sdp so i'm a little bit P**sed off to say the least!
obviously i'm getting calls and texts asking me if i've had baby yet (like i wouldn't be announcing it from the roof tops if i had) I can understand getting these calls from me friends- but from family??? Of course i'll tell them straight away!!!
but whats sent me in a tizzy today is the in (out) laws. well my mil actually- she seems to think i can pick and choose when i give birth!!!! :roll: The last wk she tells me sha has booked a holiday for the 20th (the day i'll be induced if he doesn't come on his own) she asked if i could have him the wkend just gone or this wkend at the latest!!! (yeah sure not a problem- let me get my diary out!!)
Now she asked me not to have him on valentines as pil is taking her out for a meal :x
Does she not realise i cant choose when he comes???? :roll:
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omg these ppl get on my last nerve....... my pil is a plumber and fitted us a new boiler 4 months ago - its broken down twice now! so it broke down last night at about 8.30- it was already -2 outside. pil said he'll come fix it tomorrow night (friday) Now am i crazy selfish to think he should come fix it asap due to the fact i could go into labour at anytime (now 5 days over due) and i'll be wanting a bath to ease the pain, and also not be freezing my arse off!!!!
I also worry that i could in theory have a new born baby at home- and i'd have no heating or hot water, and my pil thinks that little of us he can't come out and fix it. I'm so upset about the matter (bloody hormones)
OH wanted to send me to my mums but i dont want to be without him when i could pop at anytime!!
i'm so :x and
(btw the old boiler worked fine it had only been in 2.5yrs- but pil didn't know how to maintain it or something thats why he got us a new one)
[Modified by: waterbaby on 13 February 2009 01:03:34 ]
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Stupid people - surely as a mother herself she knows the baby will come out when its ready!!!
ggggrrrrr fuckin in-laws!!!!
(sorry can you tell I've had a skin-ful of them in the last hour too!!!)
xxxxx
I do wonder how my amazingly wonderful oh came from these 2 weirdos!!!
Although, she is such a scary lady, that I bet she does get her way!
I'm 8 days overdue now and going in on Friday to be induced but I've decided not to tell most ppl, coz all me and oh will get the whole wkend is phone calls/msgs asking us if she's here yet... everyone seems to think i'll be induced and she'll pop out an hour later (if only lol!)
the MOST annoying message i get from people is "have you had the baby yet... we're so bored of waiting now, can't you hurry up??" I could actually kill the next person who says that to me!!!! :x
just realised I turned this nto my own little rant.. sorry!
Linz
41+1 (and no she isn't here yet lol!!)
x
my MIL told me she would be canceling her holiday to poland if I hadnt given birth by the time they were due to go (booked after we told them when i was due...duh!). As it was I went into labour and gave birth with a few hours to spare - so they persuaded - god knows how - the MWs to let them come in and stare at me within hours of giving birth, just so they could see Ollie before they went....
this time around I didnt even want to tell them the date we booked in for, but OH decided he had to tell them. So now ive got the joy of telling them i dont want them there on the same day ive given birth, and probably not even the day after.
In fact at the moment i'd be quite happy if i never saw them again! Argh!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can totally understand where you're coming from, and you have my sympathy. I've found my out laws have only gotten worse as ollie got older, and are ten times worse now im expecting no2.
xxx
Hope everything goes well for you on friday x x x
If it makes you feel any better mine lives abroad and has recently announced that she will be coming to stay with us for SEVEN weeks when the baby is due, hubby is too soft to say no but I am not!!
Waterbaby i hope your baby does make an arrival very soon!!!!
what an absolute nightmare, againnn!
Make sure you keep a hot water bottle to hand & just try to relax.
Easier said than done.
xxx
OH said he wouldn't even do it for paying customers!!! AM I WRONG TO THINK WE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN PAYING CUSTOMERS!!!!
(i do hope this is rant over)
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As they say, you can choose your friends but not your family!!!
Hope your bubs makes an appearance soon and call a plumber! xxxxx