Wanting to go for Round 2 of IVF
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So this is new to me so please be kind but I felt the need to reach out as I feel like I have no one to talk to. I will try and keep this short....
My husband and I were TTC for a few years and came up against various health issues with my OH so we had to go through IVF it was a grueling process and third time luckily we were finally blessed with our beautiful girl. We had to use donar sperm to create our little wonder. I know my husband would have just accepted never being a parent (which kills me inside) given the news but I think he went through with it to complete my dreams. He is besotted with our daughter and says it's the best thing that's happened to him.
Anyway i feel sad because I desperately want to try for one more I always dreamed of two children and I feel like I'm grieving for my second child. My husband just isn't really interested but has said he will go through it for me to make me happy but I feel so incredibly selfish for wanting to go again knowing his heart isn't 100% in it. It pains me everytime I'm asked when and if I'm having another just want to scream at them sometimes!
I would would just love someone to talk to. Thanks for listening x
So this is new to me so please be kind but I felt the need to reach out as I feel like I have no one to talk to. I will try and keep this short....
My husband and I were TTC for a few years and came up against various health issues with my OH so we had to go through IVF it was a grueling process and third time luckily we were finally blessed with our beautiful girl. We had to use donar sperm to create our little wonder. I know my husband would have just accepted never being a parent (which kills me inside) given the news but I think he went through with it to complete my dreams. He is besotted with our daughter and says it's the best thing that's happened to him.
Anyway i feel sad because I desperately want to try for one more I always dreamed of two children and I feel like I'm grieving for my second child. My husband just isn't really interested but has said he will go through it for me to make me happy but I feel so incredibly selfish for wanting to go again knowing his heart isn't 100% in it. It pains me everytime I'm asked when and if I'm having another just want to scream at them sometimes!
I would would just love someone to talk to. Thanks for listening x
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