i want to kil him!!
im really sorry but this could be a long rant and not preganacy related but i also don't want to go to prison for killing my fella.
my oh seems to be getting more and more distant, he spends most evenings at his mates for 'an hour' which is never and hour and wonders why i ring him up and get mad. on monday i went out for lunch and at 6 rang him up to tell him id be an hour so he turns up home after 8 and said he had been for a 'drive.' yesterday was the final straw, instead of coming home after work he went to his mates and didnt bother to let me know so im sat at home hungry, waitnin like a right plank. to make matters worse hed rung me up whilst i was at my mates demanding to know if i lied bout the bloody supermarket i went to!!
and he couldnt work out why i was cryin and angry, no apology, no hugs, cuddles, nothin. he then couldnt get far enough away from me in bed this mornin before he went to work and then i have found out that he didnt come to bed until after 5am!!!
i just feel he is been a selfish, inconsiderate bastard, this baby is due in 7 weeks so cant work out whether he is scared il never let him out after the baby has been born or what but i havent been out since i found out i was pregnant and stay in every evenin.
i know im not the easiest person to live with at the mo but am i been completely un reasonable and hormonal? as at other times he is so affectionate and lovin and tells me how wonderful i am and how much he loves me. im so mad at him today that i want to kick him out until he apologises!! help.
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my oh seems to be getting more and more distant, he spends most evenings at his mates for 'an hour' which is never and hour and wonders why i ring him up and get mad. on monday i went out for lunch and at 6 rang him up to tell him id be an hour so he turns up home after 8 and said he had been for a 'drive.' yesterday was the final straw, instead of coming home after work he went to his mates and didnt bother to let me know so im sat at home hungry, waitnin like a right plank. to make matters worse hed rung me up whilst i was at my mates demanding to know if i lied bout the bloody supermarket i went to!!
and he couldnt work out why i was cryin and angry, no apology, no hugs, cuddles, nothin. he then couldnt get far enough away from me in bed this mornin before he went to work and then i have found out that he didnt come to bed until after 5am!!!
i just feel he is been a selfish, inconsiderate bastard, this baby is due in 7 weeks so cant work out whether he is scared il never let him out after the baby has been born or what but i havent been out since i found out i was pregnant and stay in every evenin.
i know im not the easiest person to live with at the mo but am i been completely un reasonable and hormonal? as at other times he is so affectionate and lovin and tells me how wonderful i am and how much he loves me. im so mad at him today that i want to kick him out until he apologises!! help.
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Why not ring or text him and ask him to come straight home tonight as you are cooking a special meal or something and you need to talk to him as you are feeling alone or hormonal and need him.
I'm sure the hormones aren't helping but it doesn't seem very fair what he is doing.
Let us know how you get on.
Rachel.
32 wks. xx
im gettin tearful thinking bout it cos im convinced hes goin to leave me and is only stayin with me because im pregnant, which he doesnt seem to particularly be bothered bout at the moment!! wont even discuss a birth plan or fill in the baby book. xxx
I really hope you manage to work things out.
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il try those things and if all else fails hel be movin into the garden shed so that he is close enough to be about!lol. i just keep thinkin maybe its because he doesnt experience all the feelings and kicks and itl get better. this is only a recent thing which worries me that he no longer wants to be with me. xxx
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I dont think your selfish at all, your the one carrying the baby!
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