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I’ve never met my grandchildren and I don’t know why
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My daughter works in a car dealership - she was a very busy Sales management professional when she fell pregnant with R she had two children R almost 3 now and L now a few weeks old she’s 34. I have never met my grandchildren. I told her I may have pancreatic cancer and it may be genetic and she then cut me out of her life I’m not sure why? It’s like it’s my fault? I’m on a clinical trial at Liverpool hospital I haven’t seen my daughter since she was pregnant with R, should grandparents have rights to their grandchildren? I think it may be because I nursed my mum and my mum nursed gets through it and my daughter couldn’t face that however I have never asked to. When she fell out with me she said what do you want a hand out? I was devastated. I certainly have never borrowed money from my children. I gave her £1500 towards the deposit on her new home and I set up a savings plan for her 18th birthday though I was a single parent bringing up her and her brother who is now 29. I’m 😔 heartbroken.
My daughter works in a car dealership - she was a very busy Sales management professional when she fell pregnant with R she had two children R almost 3 now and L now a few weeks old she’s 34. I have never met my grandchildren. I told her I may have pancreatic cancer and it may be genetic and she then cut me out of her life I’m not sure why? It’s like it’s my fault? I’m on a clinical trial at Liverpool hospital I haven’t seen my daughter since she was pregnant with R, should grandparents have rights to their grandchildren? I think it may be because I nursed my mum and my mum nursed gets through it and my daughter couldn’t face that however I have never asked to. When she fell out with me she said what do you want a hand out? I was devastated. I certainly have never borrowed money from my children. I gave her £1500 towards the deposit on her new home and I set up a savings plan for her 18th birthday though I was a single parent bringing up her and her brother who is now 29. I’m 😔 heartbroken.
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I have no money I’m poor and the in laws are well off but I brought her and her brother up in my own I don’t drink or smoke or take drugs, but I can’t buy expensive gifts as I’m ill.
I know the in laws have been paying for everything including the house renovations etc. I have heard.
I just want to meet my grandchildren. I cry about it lots and I know that isn’t helping me stay well so I try to put it out of my mind. But it’s hard.
My son is there for me all the time she doesn’t talk to him either there’s 5 years between them she’s older when she left she said she didn’t need us in her life. I love my daughter dearly she was my first everyone loves their first when I first held her I never imagined this x