I'm pregnant not incompetant !!
Does anyone else begin to find it just a little bit irritating when those around you begin to wrap you up in so much cotton wool you feel suffocated ??
I've been getting so frustrated with it these last couple of weeks. At first it was funny and kind of a relief to not be expected to do everything but now its too much.
My Mum nearly had a heart attack when I told her i'd driven in the snow, I had no problems driving in it I'm a good driver and hubby had given me lots of tips and I was more than aware that there were plenty of rubbish snow drivers out. Everytime I go to walk outside people are always telling me to be careful, dont walk here dont walk there ! Sometimes you just wanna walk round the block but apparently thats a no no on my own now ! Hubby jumps everytime I get off the sofa insisting he does everything (but strangely enough not the housework ! ) is constantly trying to feed me or bring me drinks and totally saw red the other day when a girl bumped into me in the shopping centre, oh and when I let the old pensioners walk on the one bit of path that had no ice on it. He seemed to think they should move over for the pregnant woman ! I'm not allowed to carry anything up the stairs, carrying any shopping bags and even getting out the car people leap over to help me out and then hang on to me like a vice ! My hubby wouldnt even let me walk a few feet to pick up a bag to put potatos in in the supermarket !!
I know I should be grateful but its getting annoyiung, i'm pregnant not incompetant !! :roll:
I've been getting so frustrated with it these last couple of weeks. At first it was funny and kind of a relief to not be expected to do everything but now its too much.
My Mum nearly had a heart attack when I told her i'd driven in the snow, I had no problems driving in it I'm a good driver and hubby had given me lots of tips and I was more than aware that there were plenty of rubbish snow drivers out. Everytime I go to walk outside people are always telling me to be careful, dont walk here dont walk there ! Sometimes you just wanna walk round the block but apparently thats a no no on my own now ! Hubby jumps everytime I get off the sofa insisting he does everything (but strangely enough not the housework ! ) is constantly trying to feed me or bring me drinks and totally saw red the other day when a girl bumped into me in the shopping centre, oh and when I let the old pensioners walk on the one bit of path that had no ice on it. He seemed to think they should move over for the pregnant woman ! I'm not allowed to carry anything up the stairs, carrying any shopping bags and even getting out the car people leap over to help me out and then hang on to me like a vice ! My hubby wouldnt even let me walk a few feet to pick up a bag to put potatos in in the supermarket !!
I know I should be grateful but its getting annoyiung, i'm pregnant not incompetant !! :roll:
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I think you might just have to live with it and try your best to enjoy it!
lau 30+2 xxxxx
We should try and enjoy it really but it is so hard sometimes!
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My hubby is being such a sweetie - so is my Mum... not many other people though!
He's letting me getting away with all-sorts!!! tee hee!
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i love how my o/h helps out and things but hes not so keen to be all nice and sweet when my hormones kick in..he said its like 'living with a psycho' the other day..the cheek! :O
i still like to do most things because i like to keep busy but im more than happy to pass over the washing up and hoovering! my least favourite chores in the world lol.
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But it has eased off this weekend as he had to work and i refused to allow the kids to become my "slaves" and cos of the hours he was working i had to cook, clean etc so a massive point was proved... I CAN BLOODY MANAGE!!!
I pointed out to him last nite that as i am having a csection i know i will not be allowed to do much after so i NEED and WANT to do stuff now else i will just do it after cos i will be so bored by then and likely to split my stiches etc etc and it wud be his fault lol Awww bless him really
Jacki 35+1
Bless my husband can be very sweet, but I know how to walk and carry things at the same time but I cant get on my hands and knees to scrub the floors anymore that he should help me with ! ha ha
My mum is no better, she is a student midwife, and if i even dared call her to say i need help with something, her mantra is "pregnancy is not an illness!" So ladies, my advice would be enjoy it while it lasts!! xxxx
I do everything on my own very very rarely get any help.
Ur OH'S are so considerate. Lap it up while u can xx