How did you cope with a miscarriage?
Alexandra1234
Regular
Hello ladies,
i really don’t know where else to turn, I’m not usually the type to use these. I used this site to ask a question regarding my positive pregnancy test. I was paranoid that they were “evap lines”! Well they weren’t, I was pregnant and last week I lost the baby at 9 weeks.
I had a feeling something was wrong from the moment I got that first positive. I was having negatives and then another positive and so on, it was bizarre.
Last Tuesday I started bleeding and I instantly knew, dr confirmed and sent me for a scan to see if everything was coming away as it should, luckily my body handled it well and I didn’t need any intervention.
As I’m typing this now, I still cannot believe ANY of this has happened. I suffered with infertility for years, lost 6 stone and me and my now fiancé got caught within a year of us being together. My ex got his new girlfriend pregnant so I instantly thought it was me who was the issue, and I was at peace with that as babies weren’t on the cards anyway. My fiancé is a touring musician and this year is going to be full of travelling.
Found out I was pregnant, being paranoid but excited to then loosing it has totally messed with my head, and I can’t help but feel bitter towards other mums to be, which isn’t like me at all and I feel awful!! I’m getting better day by day, but my question is what did you do to make things easier? I just want to go back to being my normal happy self but this whole situation has traumatised me a little bit!! I just cannot believe it!
xx
i really don’t know where else to turn, I’m not usually the type to use these. I used this site to ask a question regarding my positive pregnancy test. I was paranoid that they were “evap lines”! Well they weren’t, I was pregnant and last week I lost the baby at 9 weeks.
I had a feeling something was wrong from the moment I got that first positive. I was having negatives and then another positive and so on, it was bizarre.
Last Tuesday I started bleeding and I instantly knew, dr confirmed and sent me for a scan to see if everything was coming away as it should, luckily my body handled it well and I didn’t need any intervention.
As I’m typing this now, I still cannot believe ANY of this has happened. I suffered with infertility for years, lost 6 stone and me and my now fiancé got caught within a year of us being together. My ex got his new girlfriend pregnant so I instantly thought it was me who was the issue, and I was at peace with that as babies weren’t on the cards anyway. My fiancé is a touring musician and this year is going to be full of travelling.
Found out I was pregnant, being paranoid but excited to then loosing it has totally messed with my head, and I can’t help but feel bitter towards other mums to be, which isn’t like me at all and I feel awful!! I’m getting better day by day, but my question is what did you do to make things easier? I just want to go back to being my normal happy self but this whole situation has traumatised me a little bit!! I just cannot believe it!
xx
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im kinda in the same situation as u were.....me n my hubby have been unprotected for 6 years and we didnt think he could have kids bc he only has 1 testi but we started actively trying and tracking ov and the look on our faces that 5th month was priceless
we started a baby dream box.....its where u buy small things for ur future baby to keep hope and faith alive and to keep urself from giving up..........we try to put rules like 1 item a week gender neutral under $5 and the only exception is if theres something on clearance for an unbeatable price (like we found disney brand bibs for 50 cents)
i know it doesnt seem like it now but it will get better .....i can tag u in a chat where we only talk about positive things and it makes ur day a lil brighter to see everyones positive things and be able to share urs.....its a group i made a few days after i lost my lil angel.............a lil ray of hope to.....after a mc ur fertility takes on a huge boost and stays that way for a few months
today I decided to take a random test that was in the drawer and it’s came up a very faint positive (AGAIN)
I don’t even want to think about it right now as I’ve literally just got over everything! I’m due on today so maybe it’ll be a chem. Just when I started to feel “normal” this throws a spanner in the works! Ah well, not stressing, what will be will be and all that jazz 🙈🙈 will try again in a couple of days if it hasn’t come by then!! Not ready to go through this again!! Xxx