Embarrassing..... husband watching porn
Andreag1990
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I’m a little bit embarrasses about this so please be nice....
me and my hubby have always had a good sex life but since we had our second child he is watching a lot of porn.... we have sex I have always done everything in the bedroom and now I just don’t feel good enough.... he says he doesn’t watch it but I know he does.... I just feel devastated I hate myself and how I look now I feel so ugly..... I’ve worked my ass off and lost three stone yet he’s still watching the porn why can’t I just be good enough? I’ve even watched it with him but no still not good enough I’m just melting and have no one to talk to please help me
me and my hubby have always had a good sex life but since we had our second child he is watching a lot of porn.... we have sex I have always done everything in the bedroom and now I just don’t feel good enough.... he says he doesn’t watch it but I know he does.... I just feel devastated I hate myself and how I look now I feel so ugly..... I’ve worked my ass off and lost three stone yet he’s still watching the porn why can’t I just be good enough? I’ve even watched it with him but no still not good enough I’m just melting and have no one to talk to please help me
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I know your worried its you but actually i think men are lazy and it's just an easy way of sorting themselves out and not having to spend time pleasing you and returning the favour!! I havent got children yet but I can imagine it's harder to find time together but maybe you could both have a good date!
But you do need to find a way of making yourself feel good and confident again as we need to feel that about ourselves or sex won't be the same until you can get some of that back! Could you get your hair done? Or eye lashes? Tan? Nails? New undies? Anything that you know will make you feel more confident. My is definitely tan! I hate being pale in The winter and feel so much better being naked with some fake tan on.
Hope this helps hun 😘xx
yeah it is harder we never get a sitter but my three year old has nursery and goes to sleep at 7 every night whereas my four month old is always there and bed time is unpredictable.... he says he’s enjoying the sex at the mo but still watches porn a lot .... I used to feel amazing in the bedroom not so much anymore ... I thought maybe if I got back to a good weight he wouldn’t be interested in porn you know....it’s hard I used to do my makeup every day with two kids there’s not much time to look after myself
I'm sure your hubby still finds you attractive and is just looking for a quick release. But please work on ur self esteem and well done on the weight loss.