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Heartbroken
I could do with some advice/ support .
In 2017 we found out we’d lost our little boy at a 16 week scan, we were completely broken. I’d had babies before but other than 1 early loss at 5 weeks I’d never been through anything like this before. It’s true they say you never get over it but you learn to live with it. It made me so ill.... mentally I really struggled, I wanted to try again straight away it was the only way I could cope on what had happened. After another very early miscarriage I had a beautiful healthy little girl.
Because of my age when she was only around 6 months I decided a wanted to try again while I still could I guess.
I fell pregnant and just a few weeks ago I found out I was having another little girl we were so happy.
Then this week we were told there was no heartbeat and my little girl is gone. I will go to hospital to have my baby Tommorrow. I’m broken again.
In 2017 we found out we’d lost our little boy at a 16 week scan, we were completely broken. I’d had babies before but other than 1 early loss at 5 weeks I’d never been through anything like this before. It’s true they say you never get over it but you learn to live with it. It made me so ill.... mentally I really struggled, I wanted to try again straight away it was the only way I could cope on what had happened. After another very early miscarriage I had a beautiful healthy little girl.
Because of my age when she was only around 6 months I decided a wanted to try again while I still could I guess.
I fell pregnant and just a few weeks ago I found out I was having another little girl we were so happy.
Then this week we were told there was no heartbeat and my little girl is gone. I will go to hospital to have my baby Tommorrow. I’m broken again.
I guess I’m looking for coping strategies and advice because last time I didn’t cope at all well, I need to be strong for my other children.
Also I know it’s very early to speak about trying again but I think it’s inevitable I will, I’m 44 in a few weeks so I know time isn’t on my side. Am I just too old? My kids range from 1 year to 21. Does anybody have any similar story’s x
Also I know it’s very early to speak about trying again but I think it’s inevitable I will, I’m 44 in a few weeks so I know time isn’t on my side. Am I just too old? My kids range from 1 year to 21. Does anybody have any similar story’s x
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Im really sorry for your loss too, it is heartbreaking so cruel that you get to a point of being hopeful and looking forward for this to happen.
my little boy I lost at 16 weeks this time with my little girl I should have been 19 weeks today but she’s measuring only 16 too. Like you I thought last time getting pregnant again was the only way I could cope, it took a while but I did eventually and she lit up my life again I was obsessed too. I don’t know any other way to get through it, I think other ladies must feel like this or at least I’ve been told they do.
just feel so sad and obviously scared for today. I love her so much already.
I remember so well the feeling of being inside that bubble giving birth at this point puts you in xxxx
sending you lots of love.xx
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so sorry for your losses!
i too have now had 4 losses and no babys yet, we lost our babygirl almost 2 weeks ago 21/07/20, i had to deliver her as i went into early labour, we are truly so heartbroken and in shock.
xx
Absolutely sucked.
I feel quite bitter and its such a horrible thing to feel because it's absolutely no one's fault. Now I'm terrified every pregnancy will end this way. Urgh.