So called friends!!
Hi everyone!
Im in work at the moment and its quite quiet and ive been sat here thinking. Im 22 +2 and live with my fiance in Cardiff.
Now, before i was pregnant i had a good bunch of friends and had previously been travelling. We used to go out alot even it was just for something quick to eat or to the cinema and now i cant even remember the last time i saw them !
Just because im pregnant it doesnt mean im not any fun nemore !
I feel quite sad about this as if they were real friends they'd come around to see me or organise something. Im fed up of trying and geting nowhere.
My partner is 10 years older than me and all his friends have wives and children and its harder to get along with them as we dont share the same interests.
I dont know whether im being emotional but feel kinda lonely
Im in work at the moment and its quite quiet and ive been sat here thinking. Im 22 +2 and live with my fiance in Cardiff.
Now, before i was pregnant i had a good bunch of friends and had previously been travelling. We used to go out alot even it was just for something quick to eat or to the cinema and now i cant even remember the last time i saw them !
Just because im pregnant it doesnt mean im not any fun nemore !
I feel quite sad about this as if they were real friends they'd come around to see me or organise something. Im fed up of trying and geting nowhere.
My partner is 10 years older than me and all his friends have wives and children and its harder to get along with them as we dont share the same interests.
I dont know whether im being emotional but feel kinda lonely
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If you are the first in your group to have a baby they might need you to let them know that you still want to come out. I know it feels like you shouldn't have to but they probably just need a bit of a nudge.
Feel really lonely and my partner doesnt understand x
Guess ill meet others
I can sympathise, im 24 and 22+4 with my daughter and have found that my friends have disappeared. We used to go out whenever we got chance but now i dont seem to see them apart form those who i work with. They do still ring to check that im ok but thats about it. Im somilar to you in that my partner is 7 years older than me and his friends all seem to be settled down were as mine are all still living the party life.
Try and talk to them all individually and tell them how you feel. hopefully they will realise that life doesnt stop just cause your expecting.
Happened when I had my 15 yr old, with my 6 yr old and now this one. The true friends have been there all along but there are a few who drift away. The saying is you can count your true friends on one hand!!!!!