upset but just wanted to talk :)
its a year today wen my grandad died and im so upset i just wish he could see my lil bubba n stuff i know im just goin on but i needed to tell some one! he was like a dad to me. im sorry for goin on a bit. he was only 65.
but on the bright side wen bubbas born im putting a pic near his grave so he can see his great grand child
bec x x
but on the bright side wen bubbas born im putting a pic near his grave so he can see his great grand child
bec x x
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If you ever need to talk about it I'm here and I hope you feel a lil better soon. Also it's a really nice idea by putting a pic near his grave.
Big hugs
Hayley
thanks hayley! it just seems wrong that they go and there not even old and have so many things they still wanted to do
Keep you chin up Bec. I have faith in the fact that my mum is looking down on me watching everything that goes on so she is in some way a part of my life still. I'm sure it's the same for your grandad, your aunty and your grandad-in-law. It's a lovely thought to put a photo of your lo on your grandad's grave. And don't beat yourself up about feeling sad. It's only natural to feel sad and miss lost loved ones on or around the anniverary of their death. You're only human afterall. Big hugs at this difficult time xxxxxxx
I still say now that my mum should never had died at what seems such a young age these days. When I used to get upset while I was pregnant with my son I use to sit and talk to my bump and tell him about all the things that we use to do. One thing that cheers me up is when my neices ( who are 6) come here for a holiday and they tell my ds that his nanny is a star in the sky and when he is old enough they will show him which one she is.Which is so sweet.
I will always think of her no matter what. You will never forget the day that you lost him, but you should always think about the memorys you have and it will make you cope a little better.
Hayley
he was in hospital and had on of his legs amputated due to diabetic ulceration and he was fretting when he found out about the baby about how he was going to bath the child, because he loved doing it with all his grand kids. he was the sweetest man i ever known and i miss him so much. i know that he will be watching down over me, just like yours will be. im just glad that he got to see the pic of my baby. if it was a boy we were going to name it after his family and his son (my uncle who died in a motorbike accident when i was 1) but we are having a little girl, which i know he would have been chuffed about!! there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about him. the baby is due the day after his birthday too! it would be so nice if she was born then! a real tribute!
dont think about losing him, just think that he will be with you werever u go.
love grace and baby xxx 24 weeks + 3