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Forgive me ladies for I have sinned
Hi,
I decided to take 4 days off work last week to spend with my husband, as you may know we had a few problems recently and felt it would be beneficial for both of us to have some time off together. Wellllll we had a fab time and both really enjoyed ourselves but on Saturday we decided to watch the football (both avid man u supporters), then won 4-0 so there was a lot of smiles in our house and we thought we would have a celebratory drink so Ian had a beer and I had a small vodka and coke (I haven't had a drink in nearly 4 months so it was quite odd),I felt pretty outrageous having a drink but what I did next was even worse............... I had a ciggarette I haven't smoked since the day I found out I was pregnant and I'm now 22 weeks, I don't know what came over me and I felt endlessly guilty but strangely enthralled afterwards. I don't plan on doing it again but thought I would share my naughtiness with people who won't judge
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I decided to take 4 days off work last week to spend with my husband, as you may know we had a few problems recently and felt it would be beneficial for both of us to have some time off together. Wellllll we had a fab time and both really enjoyed ourselves but on Saturday we decided to watch the football (both avid man u supporters), then won 4-0 so there was a lot of smiles in our house and we thought we would have a celebratory drink so Ian had a beer and I had a small vodka and coke (I haven't had a drink in nearly 4 months so it was quite odd),I felt pretty outrageous having a drink but what I did next was even worse............... I had a ciggarette I haven't smoked since the day I found out I was pregnant and I'm now 22 weeks, I don't know what came over me and I felt endlessly guilty but strangely enthralled afterwards. I don't plan on doing it again but thought I would share my naughtiness with people who won't judge
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I gave up smoking and drinking too when I found out and It had been a struggle with the smoking I go all week with not smoking then at the weekend I may have one or two if I fancy it but thats it. Well I say once a weeks most of the time its longer. Fair play to you for given up, I know for me it was a reall achievement. I smoked with my first as i found it rwally difficuly gave up with second completely and with this one I have found harder again but given up apart from the odd one I am have.
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I gave up smoking with my last ds and now thankfully I cannot stand the smell or site of cigarettes - I even gag if I smell someone smoking in the street - must have done self-hypnosis I think.
However, I have the biggest craving for alcohol of all things! I don't normally even drink that much - probaby a glass of wine every 3-4 weeks but since Christmas I have succumbed on many occasions.
I drink a bottle of Bacardi Breezer (cos they're not THAT alcoholic!) every few days and feel very guilty about it! I guess as long as we keep feeling guilty about our little vices it'll keep us off hitting the booze/fags in a big way!
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I've only been abstaining since Christmas and my cravings are getting less each week. I'm determined to have a really good week and not give in to my vices at all. Suz x
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I have never smoked (much!) so not really bothered bout the fags but can see why people do. Years ago everyone smoked 40 a day when pregnant, lol, I wouldnt do it though. xxx
As you know I only gave up under hypnosis 10 days ago and the guilt I was feeling just before was horrendous as I was smoking A LOT but I know I have now done the right thing but I know it would still be a struggle if I had a drink - seeing you had a vodka and coke just set off a craving lol Personally I think the worst part of your confession was to being a Man Utd fan (OH and Ollie are too) lol
I have even told me bezzie to start arranging our "wet the babies head" night out for beginning of July coz OH is a non-drinker so somebody has to do it lol
Glad you had a good weekend mate
Love Lee
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Hehehe !! My dad is too and I'm glad I wasn't with him when they lost to man city!
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I don't get moody when they loose like Ian does, he really throws paddies which I laugh at which tends to get me in trouble lol.
Shameful loss against City was made up but thrashing the gunners who I hate hate hate but not as much as I hate Chelsea
If Manu loose now I tend to go out.
C