Does anyone know whether it is possible to change midwife without causing a major backlash for myself. This is my first pregnancy and so far my midwfie has been not been the easeiest person to talk to. She has not once asked me during my visits how Im feeling or how things have been going, its just down to business and off you go. I feel that when I do ask her questions Im being a nusance. She has even tried to talk me out of going to the hospital of my choice saying that it would create a great deal of extra paper wrok for her. Ive not found out that it took over a month for her to requst a place for me at said hospital and now they cannot take me as they are full. Im worried that if I complain Im still stuck with her, it will only make matters worse. With 11 weeks to go Im getting more and more anxious and stressed about the birth as Im booked into a hospital that I dont want to be in and have a midwife that I feel extremely uncomfortable with.... what do I do???