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Am I out of order??
Hi Ladies
So in short, my OH is going on a stag do as of tomorrow until Sunday, it is the first weekend we have spent apart since we have been together and I am dreading it. Feeling really low and emotional today and dont want to be alone tonight (OH usually comes over on a Wednesday) Its his brothers stag do and his brother is arriving at his folks house tonight and going over to OH's for a beer (because obviously they are not going to drink enough on a 4 day stag weekend). My house mate is away tonight (Moving in with OH in the next month) and I am just feeling really down. Just had a go at my OH for being inconsiderate and not thinking that maybe he should spend tonight with me given I am probably not going to see him for a week....am I being totally out of order?? Can't believe I am crying over this but I am really upset that he doesn't want to spend time with me.
bl**dy hormones!!!
So in short, my OH is going on a stag do as of tomorrow until Sunday, it is the first weekend we have spent apart since we have been together and I am dreading it. Feeling really low and emotional today and dont want to be alone tonight (OH usually comes over on a Wednesday) Its his brothers stag do and his brother is arriving at his folks house tonight and going over to OH's for a beer (because obviously they are not going to drink enough on a 4 day stag weekend). My house mate is away tonight (Moving in with OH in the next month) and I am just feeling really down. Just had a go at my OH for being inconsiderate and not thinking that maybe he should spend tonight with me given I am probably not going to see him for a week....am I being totally out of order?? Can't believe I am crying over this but I am really upset that he doesn't want to spend time with me.
bl**dy hormones!!!
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I don't think you're out of order - perhaps over-reacting a bit though!
If his brother is getting married, it's a big deal and I'm sure tonight is the start of the stag do! Men really know how to drag an occasion out don't they?!
Enjoy the peace and quiet, if you're moving in with him in a month, you'll be spending all time you'll want with him soon!!
xx
Amy. x
I have no issuses with him going on the stag do, its his brother and he is best man, I would be an ogre if I objected. I am just upset that he didn't offer to spend time with me tonight, I may not even have accepted but the offer would have just been nice is all. We actually don't get to spend a whole lot of time together as we both work long hours and generally only see each other twice a week and at weekend.
I am just feeling low and it just would have been nice to have him show he cared by offering to come and see me tonight!
Sorry I know I am being pathetic but just massively emotional right now!
I think some men just dont realise what they are doing until its pointed out to them, infact not only men, woman too. I always have to remind my hubby that I am here and need his attention too.
Hope you are feeling better about it all soon, he'll make it up to you when he comes back.
xx