To touch or not to touch?
Hiya everyone was just wondering what peoples views are on bellytouchers.
Went to a family party(Hubbies side) last night and can I just say I totally felt like a piece of meat proded and poked by loads of people wouldnt mind if they asked first but I cant stand it why do they think cause Im pregnant it ok to maul me.
So do you like it or hate it?
Went to a family party(Hubbies side) last night and can I just say I totally felt like a piece of meat proded and poked by loads of people wouldnt mind if they asked first but I cant stand it why do they think cause Im pregnant it ok to maul me.
So do you like it or hate it?
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Only hubby touches my belly when he wants. i've let 2 friends touch but they asked.. well one did, the other I offered to let her feel the weird lump of baby sticking out.
At our wedding, after telling parents no touching, both mother and MIL kept touching at the side of me which really pissed me off... I'd said I didn't like it and the only reason i didn't say anything was cause i didn't want to spoil the day for hubby.. if they tried at any other time I'd have had words. My mother did get the hump when I jokingly said to my friend (who hates pregnant bellies and anythign to do with pregnancy) 'do you want to touch' and then laughed at her when she was grossed out.. I think my mother thinks she has some kind of right when noone else should but she's mistaken!
I guess then you could say that i definately do not like people just touching me..whether strangers or not - fortunately I haven't really had a problem with it.. I've heard enough horror stories about random old ladies coming and poking bumps though that i got a bit paranoid...maybe i just give off unfriendly vibes so people stay away
Friend of mine told me about her friend who had a problem with random old ladies coming and grabbing her bump... her response was to go 'ooh boobies' and grab their boobs ... that made them run pretty quickly
Lisa 22+2 x x
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Now lo attracts attention wherever he goes, and sometimes they want to hold his hand or stroke his cheek.
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x x
I mean you would never touch anyones tummy otherwise so why is it ok just cos someone is pregnant???? IT'S NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!