question about sex positions!
we have only just started having sex again! ( am 18 weeks 2morrow) i was just too paranoid in the beginning stupid i know! when i am 'on top' it is fine but the other night he was on top and it really hurt! i have never had this problem before anyone know why it hurts this way?? xx
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Was the pain inside? I have found that since being preggo everything is a lot tighter down there (not good since I found out today I'm going to be giving birth to a full grown adult) and sometimes when dh penetrates (very big willy lol) it feels like he is stabbing my insides and it makes me jump. Is it similar to that?
If dh is on top I feel really weighed down and it makes my belly ache and back hurt.
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Listen to me ha ha! I sound like I spend to much time having sex lol (I don't)
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this is a topic i can answer to. I've been fortunate to get sex since we found out i was pregnant,
We have had to change poisitions. Im not good with names, but princessjane the position yopu sound like you are describing used to be one of the favourites. I think the slight pain is caused where they penetrate too hard. Whenb hubby penetrated harder/faster (sry tmi) i found it hurt and just mentioned to him to be a bit more gentle. I also used to change position of my bum!
Our faourite position now is like spooning with a slight twist to it. Was going to describe it they decided it still probably wouldnt make sense!. Spooining is meant to be good as it allows for a shallower penetration. also means, bump doesnt get in the way.
try and experiment with different positions. We now have a favoutire pregnancy position and a favourite non pregnancy position lol! xxx
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Sounds really stupid but I'm not even sure what I'm supposed to do while I'm up there as refused to go ontop with previous bf but with hubby I thought I would try but had no idea what to do. So have started to refuse to do it simply through lack of knowledge as to what my role it :S
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Tamarabell - that position sounds highly confusing and I just can imagine if me and dh tried it he would be looking at my bum crack thinking "my god who's idea was this" lol plus I would probably laugh as his toes curl when he is "enjoying" himself lmao, so think that one is out of the window for me.
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