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Whinging neighbour!!
Need to moan ladies...........sorry!!
Have been outside with DH in garden. We moved house a month ago, due to LO being due on tuesday and needing a 3 bed house! We haven't been able to get a skip for various reasons, and have all the empty boxes, flattened in our garden. We're slowly putting them in recycling bin every week, and DH has been known to fill a couple of empty bins up with our rubbish. Anyway have been outside, and basically the neighbour insisted we trim our bushes back shorter than what they are as apparently the other side doesnt like them high, she wants us to be getting rid of our boxes incase we attract 'rats'.Theres no sign of them and our garden is clean and tidy albeit a few boxes and maybe the bushes need cutting a bit shorter. We explained that we were having the garden dug up and turfed as soon as the new baby is born, we dont want to be in the middle of doing it and unable to finsih due to me being in labour or having a very very newborn baby! She pulled a funny expression and said "NEXT YEAR". I said yes, maybe sooner, depending on circumstances. With a baby on the way and due in 3 days we have been so busy sorting out nursery and doing other baby bits etc we havent had the time!! She then went on to lecture me because I was having ONE ciggerette. I havent smoked for weeks, but today, I feel stressed so treated myself. She pointed out all the bad points about me smoking and asked me if my midwife knew, and what about the baby etc etc etc. Now i feel like a complette and utter selfish bitch.
Also my LO has a dreadful cold, it was her 1st birthday yesterday and this is the first time shes been ill, talk about perfect timing on her birthday but anyhoo thursday night we had a terrible night. LO only got about 4 hours sleep and we were up nearly all ight with her crying due to feeling so ill. Silly old bag next door seemed really amazed that we hadn't taken our daughter out because she was ill. I said she has felt to ill to do anything, and she said oh.We're making up for it tomorrow and having a party if she's better. She then looked and me and said 'no cake then' WTF is that supposed to mean? I'm pregnant not fat. GRRRRRRRRRRR!! She then moaned and said her friend who was staying round that night had complained about noise and also implied that we had left our LO upstairs crying in her cot! Of course we hadn't. But you all know what an ill baby is like?
She then moaned that me and DH go to bed too late and talk to loud in bed!!
I sort of giggled and said wait for the new baby to be born then they'll be even more noise, she said i hope not, i'll have to move!
AND..............................she also implied that my LO was a 'bad' baby and seemed amazed when I said she is an angel.
Don't know why im so bothered about her anyway. Just pissed me off I guess cos its not her buisness and we are quiet neighbours.
Also have a bit of worry she's gonna call environmental health about our baby crying!!
Sorry girlies..............needed to rant..........................
DH now calls her the 'goat next door''. Maybe she does look a bit goat like.......must be the beard................!!!
Garfield
39+4
XX
:roll:
Have been outside with DH in garden. We moved house a month ago, due to LO being due on tuesday and needing a 3 bed house! We haven't been able to get a skip for various reasons, and have all the empty boxes, flattened in our garden. We're slowly putting them in recycling bin every week, and DH has been known to fill a couple of empty bins up with our rubbish. Anyway have been outside, and basically the neighbour insisted we trim our bushes back shorter than what they are as apparently the other side doesnt like them high, she wants us to be getting rid of our boxes incase we attract 'rats'.Theres no sign of them and our garden is clean and tidy albeit a few boxes and maybe the bushes need cutting a bit shorter. We explained that we were having the garden dug up and turfed as soon as the new baby is born, we dont want to be in the middle of doing it and unable to finsih due to me being in labour or having a very very newborn baby! She pulled a funny expression and said "NEXT YEAR". I said yes, maybe sooner, depending on circumstances. With a baby on the way and due in 3 days we have been so busy sorting out nursery and doing other baby bits etc we havent had the time!! She then went on to lecture me because I was having ONE ciggerette. I havent smoked for weeks, but today, I feel stressed so treated myself. She pointed out all the bad points about me smoking and asked me if my midwife knew, and what about the baby etc etc etc. Now i feel like a complette and utter selfish bitch.
Also my LO has a dreadful cold, it was her 1st birthday yesterday and this is the first time shes been ill, talk about perfect timing on her birthday but anyhoo thursday night we had a terrible night. LO only got about 4 hours sleep and we were up nearly all ight with her crying due to feeling so ill. Silly old bag next door seemed really amazed that we hadn't taken our daughter out because she was ill. I said she has felt to ill to do anything, and she said oh.We're making up for it tomorrow and having a party if she's better. She then looked and me and said 'no cake then' WTF is that supposed to mean? I'm pregnant not fat. GRRRRRRRRRRR!! She then moaned and said her friend who was staying round that night had complained about noise and also implied that we had left our LO upstairs crying in her cot! Of course we hadn't. But you all know what an ill baby is like?
She then moaned that me and DH go to bed too late and talk to loud in bed!!
I sort of giggled and said wait for the new baby to be born then they'll be even more noise, she said i hope not, i'll have to move!
AND..............................she also implied that my LO was a 'bad' baby and seemed amazed when I said she is an angel.
Don't know why im so bothered about her anyway. Just pissed me off I guess cos its not her buisness and we are quiet neighbours.
Also have a bit of worry she's gonna call environmental health about our baby crying!!
Sorry girlies..............needed to rant..........................
DH now calls her the 'goat next door''. Maybe she does look a bit goat like.......must be the beard................!!!
Garfield
39+4
XX
:roll:
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I hate people like that! Look at it this way, if she does get moody and move, then at least you've got rid of a moody old goat!! Ignore it! You have more important things to think about just now by the sound of it!!
Good luck with labour day!! ;\)
JJ x
xx
Am sooooooooo tempted to have a home birth.........she wants to know noise........I'll give her noise! Muhahaha!! SaidDH that if she can hear us talking can she hear anything else upstairs in bed LOL!! He'd better get me a gag!! LOL!! Dirty old pervert is probably jealous!!
Garfield
39+4
XX
Yeah a good old screaming home birth will show her!! haha#
Sharon x
Also last time I checked, rats like FOOD not cardboard boxes!
I have personally never had experience of 'nasty neighbours' thank god!
I am hoping for a home birth and live in a terrace lol I didn't think of the neighbours. They are really nice anyway and will probably like the idea as they will be able to meet the baby sooner lol!
Good luck with the witch next door!!!
xxx