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does he really want me and the babyor her and my baby???
i need some help... me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 mths now and found out we had a problem with our unborn child. my pregnancy hasnt been good with the upa and downs... but in the last 2mths my boyfriend has become really paly with a girl from work... we have continiously argued as i have become so down on myself i just cant cope.. hes never here.. they talk continiously by tx and recently we had such a bad argument that he told her he wished i would leave him and that he doesnt want to be with me.. he also calls her ANGEL in his txs and ive found condoms in his wallet(we dont need them) we havnt been intermate for 3mths now...he ses its all in my head .. maybe it is... maybe it isnt.. but he is never here... she poped round the other day and stayed i they would laugh and joke and whjen i walk in the room it all stoped...ive aske d him outright but he just denies anything. im now 7mths preg and i dont know wether he wants me here or not i feel unloved and unwanted i cant talk to him cos he tells me to stop over reacting. it just seems that i dont make him happy but she does i can never make him laugh. all i need is him and i dont think i have that anymore
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my scan went ok.but unfortunatly the surgeons were unavalable(typical docs). they scans are ok and baby is growing well weights about 1.6lb now and we got a 3d scan done we saw the baby yawning and poking its tounge out. of you or your o/h watch wrestling it was doing a jhon cena move "you cant see me" where jhon cena waves his hand infront of his face. eveyone thinks its a boy but i dont babys too cute lol. the problem with baby is called an exsomphalos.its not common but its not rare. basicaly its where the abilic cord hasnt fused to the belly button and some things which are spose to be on the inside are on the outsid( it sound worse then what it is) the opperatino itself will be done straight away when baby is born.there put a vacum seal around the baby and gradually compress down. if they were to do it all at once they could suffercate the baby but its 99% sucess rate so im not too worried about that its just the time nobody can say how long it wil.l take or anything it could take 2days or 4wks. me and hubby are getting on a bit better i had it out with him and he looked me straight in the eyes and told me not to worry. i still do but hey ho you have to move on dont you. anyway hows you and hub. i should of asked how far along you are and stuff sorry thats really bad manners so id appriciate to hear a little bout you now k cos im sick of hearing myself moan. (typical woman) how was your valentines day. anyway gotta go coz im hungry so im gonna raid the freezer take care and ill hear from you soon... xxxx