becoming a single mummy
Hey ma name is sarah my daughter mia was born 18th march 07,wen she was 11week old i found out er dad whos 34 was seein a 17yr old behind my bk since end of december i kicked him out 7week ago n since then i av brought mia up.e doesnt bother to cme up n c er thro the week,e as er mon n tues while i work but if i aint wrkin them days then e wont av er..
i know i dont need him but im scared of bein a single mummy cos shes startin to teeth n she can sit up n the other day while i was puttin the washin away i ad er sat on the bed n she fell off n it really scared me n hurt me cos she was hurt..i told er dad n e just asked if she was ok n didnt bother to cme up n c if she was ok..i jus need advice really i know i can go it alone but i dont wanna be a single mummy if u know wot i mean...
i know i dont need him but im scared of bein a single mummy cos shes startin to teeth n she can sit up n the other day while i was puttin the washin away i ad er sat on the bed n she fell off n it really scared me n hurt me cos she was hurt..i told er dad n e just asked if she was ok n didnt bother to cme up n c if she was ok..i jus need advice really i know i can go it alone but i dont wanna be a single mummy if u know wot i mean...
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Does anyone else feel the same?
Your bound to feel scared and very emotional at the mo, you probably got alot going round in your head and hormones going 100 mph! But it will get better im due in 16 days and its still scary but things dont feel as half as bad as it did when we first split. It does get better believe me
Sixteen days, I bet you are so excited!! Do you know what you are having? I realy want a little girl.
Your so right about the hormones, I am terrible at the best of times ha ha!
Thanks again for the encouraging words X
I am sooo excited yeh, exactly two weeks today until im due! scary stuff. Im having a little boy and im so chuffed because i really wanted a little boy because we have soo many girls in our family!
Dya think youll find out what your having if you can? And as for the hormones i blame everything on the hormones and its great because you get away with it! haha.
I hope you enjoy your pregnancy, the rollercoaster that it is lol x
I'm excited for you and I'm really glad that your getting a little boy aww,bless X
Yeah, I really want to know now!!! I want a little girl - I'm going to call her Rosa ;0)
I thought he had turned into my dad or something when he said I didn't want a baby at my age - It's not like im 12 ha ha!!
I don't think I would have ever wanted a man involved with this anyway - I'm sure you are better off alone. So many of my friends are pregnant with boyfriends and honestly I think their life is so much harder.
Just think we have no men telling us what to buy, or turning up and shouting at us or worse giving us a slap - thats what my friends put up with and then they pretend that every thing is wonderful.
Have you enjoyed your pregnancy? I hope so xx
I dont wish me and the dad were together and i know im better off without him but I feel really awkward when people ask me whats going on with me and the dad...I feel like I have to explain myself and my situation to everyone and I know i shouldnt have to but I feel people pre-judge...do you get this?
Do you have any dates for scans yet? I really hope you get the little girl you want and Rosa is a lovely name! I like girlie names, If i had a girl I was going to call her Ellie-Rae My cousin is due a little girl in December, shes calling her Scarlett.
Im so glad you got a good attitude on your situation, I cant stand it when single mums act as though they cant do it without a man...its like failing before even trying!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxx
xxlisa&davidxx
Marcus (the dad to my little boy due in 10days) gives me money on a monthly basis and we have an agreement where as he sees him on a tues and thurs after work and he will have him the odd sunday when hes not working. For me this is really good and id rather have it this way then us still together and not getting on.
Its so nice to see single mums because they seem to wise up to everything and it just makes them such stronger people..and i have no doubt thatll be the way for the single mummys to be on here...
Thanks for your story lisa, its so nice to hear different storys and keep up the fab work with little david
Sam x
hows it going? any update?