please help stressed out
hi,
I'm new to this site in fact i'm new to chat rooms altogether. I need some advice i have a 14 month old daughter and having been thinking about trying for another baby but have been through so much lately.
I had a really bad pregnancy as i had placent previa which was very stress full as i bled from 29 weeks, spent four weeks in hospital and never really left after that. Also we moved house right at he end of my pregnancy, plus i had to give up work due going in and out of hopsital. I was then diagnosed with pd. I have felt really lonely lately, due to this my husband and i have been struggling as we been together 7 yrs and have got sort of stuck in a rut but we r trying to work things out and so far so good. I'm sorry to go on but i just wanted to know if its normal for couples to go through this? also if other mums exprience feeling lonely and when do you know is a good time to have another baby as i'm sacred about having to go through all this again but would love a brother or sister for Keira
I'm new to this site in fact i'm new to chat rooms altogether. I need some advice i have a 14 month old daughter and having been thinking about trying for another baby but have been through so much lately.
I had a really bad pregnancy as i had placent previa which was very stress full as i bled from 29 weeks, spent four weeks in hospital and never really left after that. Also we moved house right at he end of my pregnancy, plus i had to give up work due going in and out of hopsital. I was then diagnosed with pd. I have felt really lonely lately, due to this my husband and i have been struggling as we been together 7 yrs and have got sort of stuck in a rut but we r trying to work things out and so far so good. I'm sorry to go on but i just wanted to know if its normal for couples to go through this? also if other mums exprience feeling lonely and when do you know is a good time to have another baby as i'm sacred about having to go through all this again but would love a brother or sister for Keira
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Dont get me wrong - we still row etc but never let hings get to the stage where theres no return.
As for loneliness - it comes with being pregnant I think. I find that people dont invite u to things like you have some kind of infectious disease. Even some friends lose touch. Just make sure u get yourself out and about and where possible continue to have some sort of social life both with and without ur hubby.
xxx
Try setting aside some us time for you and ur hubby a set night a week where you snuggle up on the sofa and watch a dvd or even playing a board game (this mite sound a bit granny but you will soon find it will get you chatting!!)
As for your worries about actually giving birth- no two pregnancies are the same and no two births are the same so you may not have any difficulties at all next time.
Good luck whatever you decide
Good luck.
Many thanks again
sophia x