SPLIT FROM HUBBY!!!!
Have had a massive fight with my hubby and he has left! It was a really physical fight now i am scared for this little one inside of me. Its only 9 and a half weeks. Feeling really scared and alone right now all my family is 200 miles away and I dont know what to do! MIL
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Don't really have any advice but didn't want you to feel alone
Am here if you want to talk
Caroline
If you call your GP and explain they may even come and do a home visit to check you are ok.
I know this is a really difficult time for you but try not to focus too much on the long term future and concentrate on getting through each day instead. You will get through this and be ok and you have all of us to talk to when you are feeling down.
Liz x
we are all here for you hun you have the strengh inside to do this and you will come out better at the end of this hun.
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if he does come back and u feel threatened in any way ring police hun,please dont put ur self or ur baby and son at risk over a few household things,
as liz b said we r always here if u need to chat. xxx
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Kirst3 seems to have some very good strong advice
The cheapest way to travel if your strapped for cash is National Express and they have depots in every town / city. For example you can get single tickets from London to Newcastle for 9 pound. You should check with them. They have a website.
Its such an emotional time at the best of times - never mind when this kind of thing happens. My partner of five years left me two days after finding out we were pregnant, he was never violent but the first thing I did was turn to my mother and went to her house for a while, parents just want to make sure we are ok.. no place like home I always say xxxx
Good luck pet xx Allison
firstly, you need to sort out that you and baby are OK?? then, you need to do the more practical things. Seek help from CAB..they can advise on benefits, a lawyer and what you can claim for the here and now.
You poor thing. One thing to note though is my OH and I met when i was 17, At 22 we married and for the first 6 months I could have quite easily buried his chopped up remains under the patio. It does take some adjusting. You say no going back but maybe meet somewhere neutrel and talk things through. We say and do things in the heat of an argument but we dont always mean them.
he should not have got physical though. Even if you threw the first punch he should have walked away..sorry but thats my view.
good luck and look after yourself
d xxx
hope u manage to get some sleep/rest hun things always seem much worse when ur tired and stressed. spending xmas with ur dad sounds a very good idea too, and patsy is a lovely name btw.
take care of ur self hun. xx
L xx
But he was very apologetic and was very upset with himself for speaking to the mother of his child the way he did. I'm not saying call him over and make ammends. I dont think any man should lift a finger to a woman let alone a pregnant one.
But you will find comfort in family and close friends. I wish you luck
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