Help me get back my PMA!
Basically i had a crappy day yesterday. A miniscule amount of spotting and achey tummy for an hour or so but since have felt fine but i cant seem to drag myself up of the floor. My mw was lovely and positive and so is hubby but i'm so scared to think positively - keep thinking im goona jinx things. For example Im worried to make my next mw appt incase i jinx things, and im reluctant to fill in my pregnancy booklet incase i jinx things. I want to enjoy my pg but keep having negative thoughts like what if i've had a missed mc or an ectopic. I had a mc b4 and have had no reason to worry this time (apart from the blip last night) . Grrr, ttc is an emotional rollercoaster but so is being pg! xx
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most people are the same. because you want something so bad you panic that things are going to go wrong, i was the same and ALOT of people i know was too. just think positive, force yourself to look on the bright side and count your blessings. everything happens for a reason n if its meant to be it will happen for you cos it did for me and i never thought it would too, xxx
holly
i feel exactly like that, this is my first pregnancy and i am absolutely petrified that somethings going to go wrong. i'm scared about first midwife appointment and first scan in case they tell me something is wrong. my friend is also pregnant with her first as well and she is exactly the same.
like snowhite says i think its cos when you want something so bad you panic it's going to go wrong. am sure everything will be fine. how far on are you?