Partner vs. his mate??????
My partner like ive posted before, we are trapped between all this madness with his ex, well can i ask a question???
his best mate is more helpful around the house, more considerate, caring and everything towards what im going through at the moment. He comes to carry my shopping, makes me tea everytime hes here and even cleans the place. Its like OH is too busy worrying about Ex causing problems and deosnt want to wake up and realize we are starting a new fanily. yet his best mate, single, and so wicked is like the perfect would be dad,
Vote please. LOL
his best mate is more helpful around the house, more considerate, caring and everything towards what im going through at the moment. He comes to carry my shopping, makes me tea everytime hes here and even cleans the place. Its like OH is too busy worrying about Ex causing problems and deosnt want to wake up and realize we are starting a new fanily. yet his best mate, single, and so wicked is like the perfect would be dad,
Vote please. LOL
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Have you told oh how you feel? does he see his best friend doing these things for you? There is def a issue here but it's always better to try and work things out with the father. Men are thick you practically need to slap them round the face with reality before the realise it, I'm sure your oh loves you and that the only reason he is the way he is with his ex is because of his daughter, he clearly loves his child and I'm sure once your child arrives he will be exactly the same. The best friend is probably being the way he is being because he knows that is where it ends, my dh friends do the same for me because the see me as a poor defensless preggo woman. Maybe get the best friend to speak to oh and men tend to listen to men.
I don't really know what else to say
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Good luck with things, i hope they get better, you need your oh's support not him fussing your ex all the time. x x
But don't nag what ever you do...that just flies above their heads. You have to sit down together, with no distractions and talk your problems through. I know it seems obvious, but not many people do this which is why relationships fail. You say your piece then let him say his. Work it out together...simple as. Well sort of lol.
Good luck let us know what happens. Karys 17+2 weeks.