Hacked off!
As of this week jaydens dad is coming over tuesdays and thursdays ( before this week he had only seen him 3 times in 3 months!) And already im pissed off with him. Im 20 and hes 32 and he has a 11 yr old daughter too and seems to think he can tell me how to look after our son. Im sorry but i think I done a good enough job by myself the last 3 months. Ive tried to keep my cool but last night jayden was really crying when i was doing dinner and I knew why cause I know his cries (he was overtired) So i came in and gave him his dummy....he took his dummy out and put the swing on with the mobile...i told him hes over tired and doesnt need more stimulation...so i stuck his dummy back in his mouth oh and funnily enough he shut up! As ive gone back in the kitchen i can hear the mobile going and jayden starts crying! So I lost the plot didnt I started shouting at him making jayden cry more.
I was so outraged cause I think i know what im doing by now...after all I have got to know him inside out over past 14 weeks!
Sorry just had to get that out my system.... was so much easier and better when he werent about because he doesnt know him at all yet!
I was so outraged cause I think i know what im doing by now...after all I have got to know him inside out over past 14 weeks!
Sorry just had to get that out my system.... was so much easier and better when he werent about because he doesnt know him at all yet!
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I have all this to come and I am not looking forward to it. Yet my lo's father does have other kids, he doesnt see them much nor pay for them so I am not expecting alot of help from him. Yet when we did speak while Ive been pregnant he was telling me what to do etc. We didnt stay on speaking terms for long.
Lottie
I am in a bit of a strange situation with my LO's Daddy- we're not in a relationship but we do see a lot of each other & he has been telling me what I should & shouldn't be doing whilst pregnant & it's really grating on me!!!
We had dinner the other week & I put salt on my potatoes as I always do & he was like hmmm that salt can't be good for you or the baby & as I used to smoke 20 cigs a day I do have the odd puff (very rarely maybe half a ciggie a month) but when he found out he threw a wobbler yet he smokes in front of me or whilst in the car & I always thought passive smoking wasn't great for you either!!!
I think this is just typical of men girls but you seem to be doing really well with your LO's & for so long as you can bite your tongue & prove them wrong you'll be grand.
Good luck
xxx
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