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Anyone pegnant after a mc?
Hello i am 13+5 and quite worried. I had a mc last August due to a molar pregnancy and have greived and had started to heal. the problem being as this time i'm not excited or bonding with bump. At my scan i was happy to see baby but not as excited as my mum was or as i was with sons scan. I think i am trying to forget that i'm pregnant also as i barely think about it and as symptoms have gone it not always on my mind. I don't know if this is self protection thing or not by not bonding with the bump maybe if anything goes wrong then it won't hurt so much? Anyone else go through something like this or similar beginging to worry that i'm losing my mind or feelings!
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However, luckily we conceived again and now due on 4th July with a little baby girl.
I too was on edge and nervous for several months but after 15 weeks started to feel positive and enjoyed the scans etc. you are bound to feel worried, but hopefully everything will all be well - and try not to worry too much. Take care. Chelle xxxxx
I have had two consecutive m/c in the last 18 months and I'm now 30+5...
It had been a really difficult time as sukib says your constantly on edge. It has completely taken the fun out of this pregnancy and I keep dreading things going wrong, even at this stage i still really worry. I have bonded with my baby but tried not to for a while as I was so terrified of losing him.
You will work your way through it and you will bond with your baby, your feelings are normal, try not to worry to much (I know, easier said than done!!!!).
I know I won't relax until I'm holding him safe and well in my arms...
good luck
xx