F**King Families! AUGH!!
I was in hospital last week because I had really bad pains & i thought i was loosing my child. The doctor told me to take it really easy because i'm at high risk of miscarriage. My cousin is saying to me her mum thinks i'm just 'being a drama queen' it took me two and a half years to coneive this child - i'm so angry and hurt! F**king family!!
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take care Jo x
Why cant people keep thier opinions to themselves - and saying that in front of a child when we all know children repeat things is very stupid!
Slightly off the subject, but im getting sick of comments at work such as 'you'll rub that belly away' or 'stop rubbing that belly, therell be nothing left'. Why cant i rub my belly? Ive got 5 weeks left til my due date and i love stroking my bump but its not like thats all i do all day! It makes me feel closer to my baby when i give her a stroke and i thoughts that what pregnant women did! grrr
Please try not to get yourself any more annoyed about this, i'm sure your sick of hearing this but the stress you have carries onto your baby so deep breaths!
I have been told my the hospital that I need to rest & I had to come off on early maternity leave but my Mum doesn't seem to understand the concept of resting & goes on about how lazy I am & i'm in the house all day can I not clean it etc. etc.
I spent last saturday which was my birthday cleaning the whole house from top to bottom, hoovering & mopping floors, dusting, washing windows so basically stretching & carrying at 36 weeks pregnant not the best thing to be doing & do you know what...my Mum didn't even so much as say thank you so I know where your coming from!
Your main priority is you & your son so ignore them & just get on with looking after yourself. I find that I don't talk to many people about my pregnancy now because it seems that although I may have listened to their whinges & concerns when they were pregnant they are evidently bored listening to mine so you've always got this site to vent off!
Take care!
Lauren (37weeks) xox
And of course some of us has been in the hospital from day one. I reckon it just means that we will love them so much more. Dont even think about taking, whatever it is that they say, to heart.
Just ignore and carry on. You love your baby and thats all that counts. And you are being extra careful. No harm in that.
Hope you are doing better though!!!
Tash
There are always people who will run you down no matter what you do, horrible it's in your family, but like someone else said, you can't choose them!
Get on with what you're doing and just think of them as being people who are not quite intelligent enough to work out that you need support, not bitchiness. Once you start thinking of people as being unintelligent, it's hard to be insulted by them!
Kx
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