30weeks!!
morning ladies - im really excited coz im 30 weeks today!! Yey!!
On the home run now!!
OH does not seem excited or bothered by this at all which p****s me off a bit but then he doesnt like feeling bump move either - says it makes him feel a bit funny. He was down the bottom end when both my boys where born though and says he would have cut their cords but the m/ws never asked him so i'll be sure to put this in my birthing plan this time!!
Does any1 else have a squimish OH?
Good luck to all other ladies that r reaching their milestones and all ladies who r creeping nearer and nearer to Bday!!
xx elaine xx
On the home run now!!
OH does not seem excited or bothered by this at all which p****s me off a bit but then he doesnt like feeling bump move either - says it makes him feel a bit funny. He was down the bottom end when both my boys where born though and says he would have cut their cords but the m/ws never asked him so i'll be sure to put this in my birthing plan this time!!
Does any1 else have a squimish OH?
Good luck to all other ladies that r reaching their milestones and all ladies who r creeping nearer and nearer to Bday!!
xx elaine xx
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With regards to oh's, mine doesn't get to feel lo kicking that much but only because he/she stops kicking as soon as he come's near!!! He is also squimish to the point he dosn't even like watching Holby or anything like that! I asked if he wanted to cut the cord and he said he will deciede at the time! Tammi xxx
29.4 weeks
i love feeling baby move especially when im in the bath - do u?
men can be so strange!
i dont think i could watch baby crowning (possibly as its my bits its coming out of) but he did! yet he wont feel bump?!
and its not as if bump moving is a new experience! its our 3rd baby!
also she moves more when he is talking to her or feeling my bump too...definately a daddys girl i think.
congrats on getting to 30 weeks tho hun
But bless him, he watched me get bloods taken 'so I a can see if I'll cope while you're in labour' - yeah, cos thats what it will be like!!!
Think he'll be fine cos he loves the hospital shows, but I want him at my head and I don't think he'll be cutting the cord!
And yeah, he finds it a bit freaky when lo sets my tummy wobbling BUT likes to talk to bump so am sure he relates in his own way.
its nice that he talks to bump - my OH just dosnt do anything bump friendly. it was only when i started doing the pre-natal clothes wash yesterday that he saw a newborn sleepsuit hanging up and said "oh baby, we're really gonna have another 1"!
err - yeh - where have u been the last 30 weeks?!
But I have given him books about pregnancy which I know he hasn't read cos he says he won't remember it 6 months in advance, he'll read them when the time gets closer. Too busy thinking about football and cars just now.
Their minds are too small to hold ALL the info but I'm sure they'll all come up trumps when the time is needed!
xx
but then id rather have him be a good dad when they r here. im so lucky to have him really. - wow it can be really good to get ur feelings out - thanx ladies
elaine xx