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embarassing question about down below, sorry but must ask!!!
Im 20 weeks pregnant & quite worried cos things down below have gone extremely tight. Its got so bad that my oh even has trouble getting it in lately (sorry if tmi) and he isnt exactly hung like a donkey! It just seems that I have shrunk down there but thought that the exact opposite would happen now Im pregnant. I dread to think how Im going to fit a baby out there if I cant even fit a willy up there without it hurting. Does anyone else have this problem since getting pregnant, sorry to ask but just getting a bit worried,
sarah x
sarah x
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sorry for not helping one bit!!
I wouldnt worry about the baby coming out though - thats a totally different matter! Mother Nature helps with the coming out but not with letting OH in!!!!
again sorry haven't been active in this department either, but I am sure all with be fine, there are perineal massage exercises that you can do to help stretch yourselve to help you to stop tearing, someone posted on here a few weeks ago how to do it, maybe try that if you're worried.
Em x
I have found a similar problem, however I think its due to the 'engorgement' of bit down below. They feel fuller and I think thats what makes it feel 'tighter' as such. My hubby likes to take his time which I can not tolerate at the moment as after a while it just gets too sore, but def use lube - it helps. and don't stress either as that will make it worse. Is it a diff position also that could be causing a different sensation?
xx
sarah x
im so scared of tearing when i give birth! arrrr!
really havent felt like sex at all, been quite poorly through preg but lucky for me oh loves his cuddles too xxx
ive got these problems too im really worried bout it it happend after i had my 1st child im 38wk+1 now but everything seems rly close n tight .after i had my 1st child i tried to have sex but it was soo painful i had tests and swabs done but they sed everything was normal so i dnt kno whats happend to me bits .
abbie n bluebump 38wk+1