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Anyone else feel constantly guilty for having another baby?
Hiya,
I might have put a post about this on here before about this but really can't remember! Bloody pregnancy brain hehe.
Anyway, I just feel really guilty for having another baby! My daughter will be 4 in July when baby comes, and she starts school in September. I feel so bad because I don't want her to feel as though she has been sent off to school and we have a new baby to replace her! It has been just the 3 of us for 4 years and I'm so worried that she will feel left out, even though I am going to do my best to involve her in everything.
I can't stop worrying about it, even though she is really excited about baby and school and I know it will be good for her! I have to tell myself to stop being so stupid all the time but I can't help it!!!
Any ideas ladies??
Faith 27+1.xxxxx
I might have put a post about this on here before about this but really can't remember! Bloody pregnancy brain hehe.
Anyway, I just feel really guilty for having another baby! My daughter will be 4 in July when baby comes, and she starts school in September. I feel so bad because I don't want her to feel as though she has been sent off to school and we have a new baby to replace her! It has been just the 3 of us for 4 years and I'm so worried that she will feel left out, even though I am going to do my best to involve her in everything.
I can't stop worrying about it, even though she is really excited about baby and school and I know it will be good for her! I have to tell myself to stop being so stupid all the time but I can't help it!!!
Any ideas ladies??
Faith 27+1.xxxxx
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take care.xxx
I have loads of worrys about the whole child rearing thing, i guess its just part of being a mum xxDBxx
I wanted this baby soooo much when we were ttc, I still do but at the same time wonder if we have done the right thing by our daughter.
Although like you guys say it will be so good for her to have a little sister and someone always there to play with, espacially when baby's older!
Faith.xxxxx
Although we only have one child at the moment, we're planning on having another one partly because of the benefits it will have on our lo. My OH is an only child and really really wanted another brother or sister.
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