I had a mmc nearly 3 years ago (on the day that was both mother's day & my sister's birthday) so there's always a constant reminder. I was lucky that the baby came away naturally & I didn't need a D&C or anything but it was still an awful experience.
After reading your posts my heart really does go out to you, you have had a horiffic time. I am now 31 weeks pregnant again & every day I am petrified that something is going to go wrong but try to think positively.
Time is a great healer & I believe you will both be Mum's one day. I work in a crematorium in NI & we hold a service each year for women who have suffered miscarriages, stillbirths or have had their babies die young & this poem came from last years service- i hope it brings some comfort to you.
Lauren xx
The other side of midnight Not so many miles away Wrapped in hazy memories Our new-born babies play
Tended safe by unknown hands In a place we cannot see Our babies live another life From earthly cares set free
From the other side of midnight They visit us in sleep Caress our grief with infant hands When in our dreams we weep
Though in our darkest days we seem A million miles apart In time we learn that other place Is really in our hearts
The other side of midnight At last we learn to see Our babies live within us Cradled in our memory
so sorry abou your loss hun, thanks for sharing your story, u will have a beautiful baby angel waiting for u to hug one day, im sure of that! you have been so brave! i had a d and c last feb and i found it really hard but its nothing compared to your story, hope u get pg again soon as u deserve it, hugs xxxx amandaxx
didnt want to read and run, would just like to say you sound like a really strong and brave person. No one should have to go through this experience but you have come out of it with such bravery. i am sure that one day soon you will have you much deserved baby in your arms, and i hope you keep positive and know that none of this was anyones fault, these things just happen and you have a great chance of having another healthy baby.
I am sorry to have read your post..You sound so brave and I hope you are doing okay with this happening again too you. I am sure they are both looking down on you. You take care and all the best to you and your husband. xx
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After reading your posts my heart really does go out to you, you have had a horiffic time. I am now 31 weeks pregnant again & every day I am petrified that something is going to go wrong but try to think positively.
Time is a great healer & I believe you will both be Mum's one day. I work in a crematorium in NI & we hold a service each year for women who have suffered miscarriages, stillbirths or have had their babies die young & this poem came from last years service- i hope it brings some comfort to you.
Lauren xx
The other side of midnight
Not so many miles away
Wrapped in hazy memories
Our new-born babies play
Tended safe by unknown hands
In a place we cannot see
Our babies live another life
From earthly cares set free
From the other side of midnight
They visit us in sleep
Caress our grief with infant hands
When in our dreams we weep
Though in our darkest days we seem
A million miles apart
In time we learn that other place
Is really in our hearts
The other side of midnight
At last we learn to see
Our babies live within us
Cradled in our memory
lets hope we all feel a little more positive soon.. xx
amandaxx
Nina x