Waaahhh I so want to be pregnant!
:x Sorry I am just having a self-indulgent / self-pity moment of feeling I so desperately want to be pregnant! I just went to the pregnancy tab at the top of the page and read all the articles about what to expect when you're pregnant, what to do inthe last few weeks etc. and it made me so excited and soooo desperate to be pregnant. Normally I just thinking about having a baby which of course I can't wait for too, but just reading the pregnancy pages made me so long to have that bump and pack my bag for the hospital, experience all the funny side effects, etc!
Anyone else feel the same? Stupid question of course - you all do!!! :roll:
Anyone else feel the same? Stupid question of course - you all do!!! :roll:
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I am avoiding seeing one friend as she's due in 2 months and also another friend of hubby's, who accidentally got pregnant. I'm not sure I can cope with it all which is sad
I'm kinda hoping that I am right now - normally the week before AF is due I get tender and swollen boobs - nothing really to speak of and AF is due any time from Thursday. I so hope I am - like you babe, I'm so desperate for it to happen.
(hugs)
I have a close friend who is expecting her first in August. I'm kind of the opposite though as I want to be around her all the time - pregnancy by proximity!!
I am knitting her a blanket for the baby and sometimes I pretend I'm knitting it for my own baby. That makes me sad
oh well, hopefully our time will come....
Has anyone also noticed how you see every baby and pg woman now when you are out?
It seems so unfair when people "play by the rules" and it still doesn't happen. I know it's only 4 months since we started ttc, but it feels like forever!! Saying that, it did take my mate 8 months so I shan't panic too much for the timebeing.
How do I persuade my h2b that actually a little registrar office wedding will be lovely and that we should instead spend the money on a flat for us and a baby?
He knows how much I wanta baby and keeps telling me that I'm responsible for the contraception and that if I skip pills without telling him and get pregnant we will be bringing it up as two seperate parents
Makes me so sad because I want to be TTC so badly!
It's crazy but its become all I have thought about and all I think about. I see preg women everywhere I am sure they were not there before.
k xxx
Good luck Ladies, it will be our turn soon x x x
A registry office wedding is just as lovely exspecially if it means you can spend the money on a LO, does he give any reasons to y he wont TTC? xxx
As for skipping pills etc, that's definitely not the way to go about things. Talk to him and tell him how important ttc is to you, and see what you can do to change things.
A registry office wedding is just as lovely exspecially if it means you can spend the money on a LO, does he give any reasons to y he wont TTC? xxx
startingearly - does your OH want a big wedding? I was surprised how involved my hubby got in our wedding, but most details were as important to him as me. It was a day about showing everyone how happy we were
As for skipping pills etc, that's definitely not the way to go about things. Talk to him and tell him how important ttc is to you, and see what you can do to change things.
Thank you for your replies
Er...sorry to sound thick but what's an LO?
Yeah he wants to start TTC after our wedding (probably next June-ish) But I don't want a huge wedding, I just want the bit where I get to wake up wiht him, live with him, have his children... That's the bit I want, the marriage not particularly the wedding.
His reasons for waiting before TTC are pretty much wedding based, he said he would, but we wouldn't have much money for the wedding, and would have a little registry office one (personally it quite appeals to me)
I wouldn't really skip pills, but I know that they only way he'd agree to have a baby now is if I was already pregnant. It's just so frustrating! It makes me so sad, and so hurt!
If I kept our baby instead of having a miscarriage, it'd be due this June. He wouldn't have complained then! We would've been happily living together and waiting for our little one to arrive. It's so unfair, it hurts so much.
If I kept our baby instead of having a miscarriage, it'd be due this June. He wouldn't have complained then! We would've been happily living together and waiting for our little one to arrive. It's so unfair, it hurts so much.
Hun have you said all the above to him? it sounds like you have thought it all through and really really want it, also could your OH be scared about the mc happening again?
LO = Little One
I really hope he changes his mind hun xxx
I suppose he might be scared I'll MC again, but why would it make any difference if it was this year or next year?
He's already lost two babies (one ot his ex's abortion and one to me MC)
I think it just hurts him too much thinking about it, but ...why would he say he wanted kids if he doesn't?
I'm just so... angry. I'm so utterly furious with him, and my body and I know it's not his fault. Why couldn't I just have kept it? Then we'd be living together and we'd be a family already, instead of me trying to persuade him that it's a good idea to try again. Instead of me wanting a baby all the time. Instead of him hating how I keep crying all the time, and me feeling so bad because I just wish I could have the child I'm craving.
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