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Feeling angry, advice would be appreciated
My DH works away Mon-Fri and normally at wkend's we have a good sex life. Anyway we argued this wkend as he kept pesturing for it, even though I had explained that its best to avoid in the 1st 12 wks, especially as I have had multiple m/c's. Despite this he kept on and on until I eventually gave in just to shut him up. Anyway tonight after getting a bath I have discovered that I have thrush! I am now crapping myself and am worried sick. Is it dangerous to have thrush during pregnancy, especially in the 1st 12 wks? Also can it be treated with over the counter medicines? Your advice would help me no end. Thanks xxxxx
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I've had thrush from the beginning of this pregnancy. It's fine to use the usual creams, but I've been advised to only use the pessaries if I'm itchy inside, and not to insert it right up to the cervix as usual -just insert inside.
As for your dh and his demanding behaviour, I personally think it's very unacceptable and he needs to start putting yours and your baby's needs first.
Good luck honey
Karenxx
17 days to go
As for him pestering you, tell him where to go! Its his baby too, he should be being just as cautious as you. Tell him now until 12 weeks is up and if he doesnt like it, tough!
xxx
as for being bullied into having nookie thats really not on... being in a loving relationship should me that he understands your fears even if he doesnt share them with you! xxx
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